Discussion in 'Daily Living' started by Ample Pie, Jul 17, 2007.
Not even a handmirror? I like to make sure my facial expressions match those of women in porn.
I agree with the tv..and the dog..Oh and take the damn socks off.
But, why..oh why no mirror? I love watching my rolls and fat jiggle as...well you know..
THAT'S HOT FUZZY..lol
Oh I agree. I was with this guy once - he had a mirror across the room from the bed. I happened to be in a position where I could see us. I busted out laughing - and could not stop because we looked so stupid to me.
He was not immused. I laughed for quite a while (you know the I can't catch my breath BIG laugh) which killed the mood.
I like mirrors...in fact DH and I love to go at it facing the front of our bathroom vanity.
Im telling you get me talking anything sex I don't shut up...one way to get me out of lurkdom, lmao.
I have no problem with seeing the hot fat babe I'm with in the mirror(s)... but I don't want to see me. (/non-self-acceptance)
That's a rule in my house--in bed there are no socks if you want to get any action at all.
As for pre-cum, I'm a fan--but then I'm a fan of wet and/or messy petting and/or sex, so long as food isn't involved. Food sex is not my thing.
No tv either, totally. No stopping to answer the phone if you want to continue. No socks. No pets hanging around. No small children. Flash photography is fine, though.
What about video cameras?
If you get express written permission from all people involved.
Honestly, if I'm with someone I care about (and I include myself in that--I have a lot of good fun with just me), then I don't mind the idea of a video camera. On rare occasions. I say rare because I don't like the idea of technical difficulties or 'needing to adjust some knob other than his knob' getting in the way of something that is meant to be quite intimate and quite fun all on its own.
...that whole "guys are intimidated by attractive, confident, intelligent women" thing is all BS, right?
I have a tangent, but I'll hold off until there are some answers for this question (which I think is a good one).
No, AnnMarie doesn't intimidate me at all.
Okay, that just made me bust out laughing. LOL
Trust me, I'm scary as hell.
Here’s my addition to this awesome conversation. My apologies if any of this is offensive.
1. “What makes for a good blowjob?”
So far we haven’t gotten any answers on technique, and I know you ladies were just dying to know . Actually, unlike cunnilingus, there is a wrong way to do it. The most important thing to keep in mind when performing is RHYTHM. There are many varied techniques and speeds with which you can go to work, but that doesn’t mean you should switch between them constantly. At the beginning, pick a position and speed and stick with it throughout. There are a couple of exceptions, for instance steadily going from slow to fast is very good. Some variation in technique can be great as well, but when you switch, only do so for a few seconds before switching back. It ends up being a buzz kill when you get into a rhythm only to have it change suddenly. How satisfying would intercourse be if your special guy stopped you every 30 seconds to change position? You’d probably punch him.
2. “Are guys intimidated by attractive, confident, and intelligent women?”
This is a bullshit myth that started with the women, not the men. This is very similar with the all too present retort to any negative criticism “Well, you’re just JEALOUS!!1~”. The reality is that all guys are intimidated by slutty, bitchy, and arrogant women. Believe me, there is nothing sexier to a man than confidence and intelligence (big tits aside). The women who have a problem are the bitchy ones who are full of themselves. Of course this is hard for them to bear, hence the excuse that “They’re just intimidated by how awesome I am!”
3. “Take the socks OFF!!”
Socks have been getting some flames on this thread as well as the world over, and I never understood why. Part of me is pissed off about the whole thing since it seems so insignificant and childish, but I do want to know the reason. So women, why all the sock hate?
Number one, it's no more childish than liking the big tits; it's just a preference.
Number two, it's more intimate. Unless we're doing a quick and dirty somewhere other than my bed, I don't want the fellow to have ANY clothes on--socks included. I'm worth the time it takes to take off your damned clothes.
Number three, socks are way more ooky to me than feet.
Number four, I want to tangle toes as well as naughty bits.
Number five, the best lovers I've ever had know how to use their feet (massaging my legs for instance) while we're making out. This is hot, hot, hot.
you could not possibly be more wrong, here.
This is a very clueless and arrogant statement.
They're right, you know.
I'm with the ladies on this one.
Now, the last time I checked, I had no vagina.
Any sensitive area (private parts in particular) can potentially be "rubbed the wrong way", if you will. I happen to have an overly sensitive penal system (beat THAT, waxwing!), and so yeah. Ticklish.
I would suspect there's just as many ways to fuck up (lulz c whut I did thar) a blowjob, as there are ways to horribly mangle the act of eating out.
I guess you guys are right about there being wrong ways, as it is with everything. My experience has just been that the stroke direction/speed/depth/area of concentration does not matter as much, and variety is prized more than rhythm. I guess my assertion stems from having explored as many different ways to do it as I could, and not getting a negative response.
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