When did you realize you were attracted to big girls?

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    Just a kinda fun thread on when you realized or discovered you were attracted to big girls?

    My story is I was probably 12 I think. My dad worked for a newspaper and magazine distribution company and we used to get any mag we wanted free. I remember walking through and looking at all the magazines and seeing some BBW porn mags. I was just blown away. I got quite a few, and a few regular mags to put on top so my dad didn't see. Been hooked ever since on big girls, large woman, heavy and even fat women. Married a BBW and love it. 5-2 250 with huge boobs and a huge ass that I just worship.

    So what about you guys, anyone else please chime in? I want to hear some good stories.
     
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    I think I can go back to first grade or earlier. This young teacher who was chubby grew quite fat over a year or so. I remember just wanting to see how soft she was, not sexual at that point but larger people just filled me with a weird awe and joy.
     
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    For me it was High School. Once I actually had one in my hands and arms, life was never the same after that.
     
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    That's it? I thought this thread would get a lot of replies.
     
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    Elementary school.
     
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    I look back to my family as to when the seeds may have been planted (plus size mother and two SSBBW aunts) at an early age. I also remember having a dream in 1st or 2nd grade where I vividly imagined a friend's mom lying in bed face down naked with me having a unobstructed view of her prominent fat ass (I don't know how I could have had such an image at that age, but it happened!). Certainly by 5th grade when I had a beautiful fat teacher, things began to become clearer in my mind that my idea of beauty was different than others. I guess what I am saying is that I kind of always knew. As such I have never had a relationship with anyone who wasn't a BBW or SSBBW and have never had any desire to do so.
     
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    My first "real" girlfriend in 8th grade was a shot putter on the girls' track team!
     
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    I will admit to watching certain women's sports for the curves on the athletes. That can be a very sexy look--big curves with plenty of firm muscle underneath. I often see great bodies on female shot putters, discus throwers, hammer throwers and water polo players.
     
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    When I was in junior high school!!!
     
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    I've been fascinated by fatness ever since at least third grade, when I had a teacher who was a real door-filler, but in terms of attraction, I remember feeling that during early high school, for a beautiful girl in her upper 500s or thereabouts. I may have felt attracted before that, but it's a bit harder to pin down precisely where "sheepish admiration and shyness" fade into overt attraction for someone else.
     
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    Was this a student?

    My gym teacher called my class (all the students in my grade, not just our gym class) "extraordinarily heavy". I hit 400 pounds in my senior year. I was too heavy for the scale in the locker room, even with the dongle that added 50 pounds to its capacity. And I'm guessing there was one girl who was at least as heavy as I was. But we weren't the heaviest. There was one boy who did not return the senior year who hit 400 early in his junior year, a year and a half earlier than I did. There was a girl who was probably 200 in sixth grade, essentially fully developed, who I thought had the potential to keep up with me :) but she was probably only 300 or so when she graduated. There was a football player who was about 350, who wasn't particularly athletic, they just used him for his size :) And there were a couple other boys and a couple girls in the 250-300 range.

    But the heaviest student was two years younger than me. I don't know how big she was, exactly, but reports were that she didn't fit in the desks by her senior year. I fit in the desks, probably better than the football player, because my weight is in my legs and chest and not so much my belly, and the 400+ pound girl in my class fit in the desks. She was a lot wider than the seat, but she fit between the seat back and the desk, with the desk pushed under her belly. Even the kid who hit 400 pounds as a junior fit in the desks, with some difficulty. His butt wasn't as thick as the heaviest girl so he had to sit funny to get his belly on top of the desk. But he fit. Sorta.

    But the girl in my sister's class didn't fit at all. I figured, from the way she looked as a sophomore, that she probably hit 500 in her senior year.

    Rumor has it that the school wanted to ask me and the heaviest girl in my class to not sit in the desks, because we were damaging them. I don't know if that was just kids being mean, but I didn't mind. I thought it was kinda cool that they noticed the desks bent a lot and made noises when she and I sat in them. I see that they now make those desks with a reinforcing bar that keeps them from bending so much :)

    Anyway, my fascination with really large people began when I was less than ten years old and a friend kept talking about "super fat" people, and I noticed and appreciated women whose butts and legs were too large to fit into their stretch pants, and I noticed their panty lines and that their panties would show over the tops of their pants. In sixth grade there was one teacher who was large enough to stress the furniture and I loved to see him sit in some bendy plastic chairs in one particular classroom. But I have a vivid memory of a woman in a restaurant that was so much larger than her chair that the part that hung over the side looked like she had an enormous, second lobe to her, the size of a large person, and it occurred to me that that chair must be under a lot of stress. I've been fascinated by super large people, people large enough to stress furniture, since then.
     
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    I realized it when I was 17 (1972). I read an article about NAAFA with pics of a group of SSBBW and FAs. From that time on I had a label for my preference for bigger girls.
     
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    Yup, it was a student, and there was no way she could possibly have fit into any of the desks, though I never saw her make the attempt. We had a few computers off to one side of the classroom, sitting on tables with chairs separate from them, and she'd always sit there. Even then, though, you couldn't sit at the computer next to her without basically embedding yourself in one of her hips. She was gorgeous. I even remember her sitting behind the teacher's desk once, when there wasn't anywhere else.
     
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    Having grown up well before the internet, it was something of a gradual realization for me.

    I now know that I showed all the usual prepubescent signs (stuff like being weirdly fascinated by Winnie the Pooh as a kid, being positively disposed toward chubby girls in my classes, etc...none of this exactly sexual, but definitely signals from my subconscious). I also remember being somewhat confused in the very earliest stages of sexual awakening by the fact that the bodies that appealed to me did not seem to be those that appealed to my friends. The confusion was probably compounded by the fact that I didn't go for SSBBW per se, but rather women who were chubbier than the norm. Nowadays we'd call these "thick." Because they were plump rather than obese, my status as an outlier wasn't so clear and it made it harder for me to understand, somehow.

    The closest thing I had to a dramatic moment of realization was in grade 8 when I saw a classmate in partial profile in the hallway. Her big bubble butt protruded behind her in jeans and the moment of recognition was suddenly and absolutely electric. I mean, the effect was insane - the first time I went from abstractly thinking that such and such a girl was 'pretty' and realized that there was something else much more primal and powerful to reckon with.

    It still took a little while to fully clarify just what I was into. Looking back, I spent my teens partly working out the question of upper limit. There was a sort of repression going on, I think. I still do have an upper limit but it is MUCH higher than I was really willing to acknowledge back then.

    The other thing that took a surprisingly long time was to understand how insanely sexy I find it when women overeat and gain weight. In other words, it's not just the shape, it's the behaviors. This was more something I twigged to in my college years - but it wasn't really until my mid-20s when I met my future wife that I fully realized how deep this went. She was merely full-figured at maybe 170-175, size 16, but had been fat growing up and was basically done fighting her own nature by the time we met. She ate a lot around me right from the start and I was more than happy to provide lots of treats and desserts. I loved her routine day to day overeating (always going for seconds, always having dessert, usually being too full after dinner), but the times when she really, seriously stuffed herself were the mind-bendingly exciting moments for me. Also intensely exciting have been the recurring moments when her weight gain became obvious. As she's gained about 130 lbs in our 23 years together I've enjoyed many such moments, but it took meeting her to make me recognize this profound enjoyment.
     
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    Speaking of weird fascinations, am I the only guy who found Miss Piggy "interesting" or am I the weird one in the bunch?
     
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    One word. Snacksersize.

    Also, like Choudhury, I was into Winnie the Pooh as a kid, and I watched/read Garfield every time I got the chance (this was back in the 80s-90s,) but for some reason, the Templeton fair scene in Charlotte's Web made a big impression on me too.
     
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    Yeah, I feel you. I remember seeing ads on tv for her in the Broadway musical Ain't Misbehavin'. I was mesmerized.
     
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    When I was a kid...looking at those big JCPenny and Sears catalogs. I'd flip to the ladies undergarments section and look at the "plus size" models in wearing giant bras, panties, girdles, slips, etc...When I got older my attention always gravitated towards heavier women. First girl I ever kissed was well into the BBW range. My heart swooned...and I was hooked!
     

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