When did you realize you were attracted to big girls?

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  1. Nov 6, 2018 #61

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    My first real girfriend was a chubby girl in the 10th grade. We dated until she went to college and I went off to trade school. Been loving big women ever since...
     
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  2. Nov 7, 2018 #62

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    Here's mine, but I should change my handle to Threadender. On any board on any subject, anytime I post something, that's the last one.

    My story is a little different. I didn't realize I was attracted to big women until I was in my mid-thirties. I got married when I was 40. My ex was a very big lady, 340 when I married her. She had the stomach stapling thing done, and lost some of it. She gained some back when she had our daughter.

    We broke up in 2001, but it didn't have anything to do with her size.
     
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  3. Nov 10, 2018 #63

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    Railroad Man, that is really interesting. Do you mean that you were perfectly satisfied/fulfilled with thin women, and then, basically, a switch flipped? Or do you think that you were always FA, but just repressed or didn't come to grips with it?

    See? Not a thread killer!
     
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    Back in the mid-80s when I was 15, a friend introduced me to one of his father's porn magazines. It was an obscure title I'd never seen before, a rarity in those days specializing in fat women. Having been previously exposed only to the dominant media version of what was attractive, seeing two and three hundred pound women displayed as explicitly as smaller women might have been in Hustler was an eye opening event. As I flipped through the pages, I noticed I was having a much stronger reaction than I'd had to Playboy, Penthouse, etc. I felt an unexpected urgency, and even ache in my nether regions which more mainstream publications had failed to inspire. I realized straightaway I had a strong preference for this body type, but one that had apparently required a potent erotic trigger to activate. I couldn't stop thinking about what I'd seen, and after that, I purposefully sought out the voluptuous and fat feminine form.
     
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    I honestly don't know the answer to that. It just happened like that. I suspect it was there all along though, at some level.
     
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    I had the same experience.
    I realized it when I was 17 (1972). I read an article about NAAFA with pics of a group of SSBBW and FAs.
     
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    I had the same experience.
    I realized it when I was 17 (1972). I read an article about NAAFA with pics of a group of SSBBW and FAs. :D
     
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    I remember having a feeling I couldn't identify for my school bus driver in first grade. I had no idea what attraction was at that age, but I remember the feeling and felt compelled to ask her name. As my 6 year old sense of female aesthetics went, I didn't think she was particularly pretty, but it was the spread of her thighs with which I was fascinated. That attribute seemed to make up for her other shortcomings. Also, when my parents took me to see Disney's Fantasia, the feminine, tutu-clad pink hippos in the Dance of the Houris segment also stirred the same feeling. Their interactions with the clearly masculine thin all
     
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    First up I would like to state that in no way is this post meant to offend or disrespect anyone and is merely a true & genuine recollection of how my attraction to plus size woman started and in fact I risk being ridiculed for being honest in doing so. I would also wish to make it clear that my attraction only applies in a sexual context and in all my other interactions of a non-sexual nature with plus size woman I am very much respecting, loving, caring & equal. Lastly, I'm curious as to whether any other men have had experiences similar to mine.

    My attraction to plus size women began when I was a young 20 year old man. Myself and a friend of mine had been out on a Saturday night visiting our local pub. As it happened there was one particular girl of bigger dimensions that had been keen on my friend for quite some time. Now she would follow him around like a lost puppy dog which I found to be quite surprising as my friend always spoke down to her in a disrespecting & dismissive way. In essence he kept her "around" for sexual favours if he didn't have any luck hooking up with some other so called more slimmer and attractive girl. Now I don't condone his behaviour but hey we were only 20 years old after all. On this particular night he hadn't had any luck "picking up" so invited this girl home with him and as per usual she accepted. Now accompanying her was her girlfriend who coincidently was also of plus size proportions. The four of us left the pub together, my friend driving with his girl in the front seats and myself and her friend in the back seat. On the drive to his place my friend unleashed a barrage of disrespectful and degrading statements towards this girl, being both of a sexual & fat related nature which I found quite shocking but to my surprise rather arousing. Hence when her friend piped up to defend her and said "don't speak to her like that" I was quick to say "fat pigs like you two should be grateful that we even give them the time of day let alone let you blow us off like we do". My statement seemed to have the desired effect and was accepted by both girls. We continued to see both girls and speak to them in a sexually degrading manner which they never complained about but rather seemed to actively participate in and even encourage our bad behaviour. Consequently over the years that have followed I have encountered many plus size woman who have responded positively to fat oriented sexual degradation and is my fetish source of sexual attraction towards fat women.

    Has anyone had any similar experiences?
     
  10. Nov 12, 2018 #70

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    When I was in the Army in school a friend and I went to the homecoming dance of the school that he graduated from.
    18yo, in very good shape, and wearing the Army dress green uniform. Needless to say I got alot of girls that wanted to dance with me.
    Midway through the evening a shy plus size girl timidly asked for a dance. She and I had such a good time I turned down all the other offers.
    My friend and I visited his home town in Pennsylvania several times more and I dated the chubby gal from the dance.
    A couple of years later I was set up on a blind date with a plus size girl and ended up dating her for a few months.
    Several more years later I was set up on a blind date again with a plus size girl. Which I dated for a few years and was briefly engaged to her.
    Now I must make it clear that these blind dates were set up by different people and all 3 women were living in different states.
    It wasn't until I started dating the third girl that I recognized my preference to plus sized women. I even dated several thin girls in the meantime. But now plus sized women are the only size women I am attracted to and I am happily married to a fabulous plus size woman.
     
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    It was very early in life. I believe at 11 yrs. old. Never thought girls were yucky. I always liked girls. Back then chubby girls were the best. It's a preference. Biggurls got the good LOVE!
     
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    You could basically say I was born an FA.All the women in my immediate family have been at least #200 if not bigger.Mama was over #400 at her heaviest.Don't read me wrong,there was nothing sexual as far as family was concerned.It was just the fact that being around all those feminine curves I just felt BBWs were more attractive.I admire women of all sizes as long as their personality is positive & friendly but I've always been more passionate with the larger ladies.After all these years I am finally in a good relationship with a lovely #300 Goddess.I couldn't be happier....:)
     
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    l think part of my attraction to large ladies is l have found them to be funny and kind people who treat people with respect
     
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    It was around 15 or so when I started to take an interest in opposite sex. when my and my best friend were chatting about about how we never seemed to go for the same girls.
    That conversation was my Eureka moment
     
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    No tinc memòria que mai me n'adonés. Sempre ha estat així. De quan era una canalla de poc temps, d'abans de tenir memòria, ja m'expliquen a casa certes preferències de companyia o de personatges del televisor o del cinema que ja indicaven la meva grassoneria.
    Del que sí que servo memòria és de quan ho vaig verbalitzar. i va ser tan bon punt vaig poder sumar prou experiències, de la mena que fos, per descobrir, primer, que a mi el sexe me'l feien present la pertinença al sexe gras dels morbs que m'agradaven, la companyia dels quals sempre preferia i hi tenia facilitat per avindre-m'hi; i no pas la pertinença al gènere masculí o femení, ni evidentment la pertinença més grassa o més prima al sexe prim dels aufils. Que és tan com dir que vaig descobrir què era el sexe: fins llavors vivia la meva grassoneria a part del que la llengua en ús anomenava sexe: el qual, afesomiat sempre amb aufils, per mi com si em diguessin llúcia.
    i segon, que només era això, la morbositat, l'únic denominador comú de la meva experiència desiderativa, també de la de la salut i la de societat. Si no ho vaig poder verbalitzar abans, donada la meva precocitat, perinatal, a una identitat sexual, només va ser per culpa del nombre tendent al zero per cent de morbs que l'holocaust esvelt de règim sanitari deixava que hi hagués, i encar enguany, a la població voltant. Això va ser el que va provocar un cert retard, no pas gaire ni particular en la generalitat dels hòmens, en la consciènciació; que no pas en la meva vida viscuda.
    [morb = ≥50IMC aprox/orient.; aufil = ≤ 45IMC aprox/orient.]
     
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    I was 15 or so when I developed a huge crush on this girl who was seriously pushing 300 pounds. However, the real clincher came a year a later when one of my teachers was a very attractive, thin, blonde woman in her late twenties. Over the course of the school year, the woman put on a visible amount of weight. In reality, it couldn't have been more than 15 pounds at the most, but due to the fact that she was such a skinny little thing to start with, and the fact that most of the weight went straight to her butt, it was a pretty obvious gain. Well, watching an attractive woman turn into a chubster before my eyes was the hottest thing I'd ever seen at the time, and that was the moment I realized I was attracted to fat girls and weight gain.
     
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    I was 5 years old when i heard AC/DC's whole lotta rosie off of the cassette when my dad wasn't around and after that i just loved big women. my gym teacher in grade school was huge. sometimes i would watch her run, she was gorgeous. then there was this barely mobile french teacher, (that class was a joke, no actual learning went on in there) she broke her chair and fell on her but .she blamed the "cheap ass chair" lol. the whole class laughed exept me. there was also this economics teacher in highschool, she had a massive muffintop, and a few times i saw bits of her belly and rear when she bent over. also my friends mom was just a big cutie too. she was younger, and evertime i went over i saw her. she owned a plus size clothing store too, which i went to to pick up my friend, or so he could tell his mom we were going out. lol those where the days
     
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    Hey, Shes the OG bbw. (That makes Kermit the frog the Original BBW lover lol)
     
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    probably high school...but back then I was afraid of what people would say if I dated a plus sized girl. After I got older I didn't care what people thought. Although actually I'm attracted to different types of women. For me it isn't a fetish though...it is just that some of the women I'm attracted to are plus sized. Beauty is beauty ...right?
     
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    Agree, beauty is beauty. I find all sizes of woman sexy, I just prefer larger woman.
     
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