When did you realize you were attracted to big girls?

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  1. Mar 13, 2019 #81

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    I feel you. I don't mind different body types, but there's just something about that thiccer form. I don't mind slightly slimmer, but I just can't roll with slim-jim scrawny lol.

    Interestingly, I was that guy in the second half of my high school years. Even a little before high school, I had realized how fat girls turned me on, but high school is when I really started to talk to less skinny girls and more that were bigger. Each girl I talked/flirted/dated was bigger than the last. This one girl I dated was...well, fat to some, but just barely past chubby for me. Classmates would jeer at me and comment on how I'm "f**king all the fatties." I never really cared tbh - I either laughed or made a snarky comment back. Dating that particularly ex of mine was interesting. When we were physically close, sometimes I'd grab a roll and sink my fingers. I just couldn't help myself lol
     
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    Same for me. I was 30 when I realized I was attracted to BHM. I'd gotten married to an ultra-thin man a few months before. How about that?
     
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    While I'd known I was an FA since puberty (and long before I heard that term), I hadn't realized a lot of other parts of my sexuality until shortly after marrying someone who I soon determined didn't share those. So I sympathize fully on this, and sincerely wish you good fortune with whatever coping strategies you have.
     
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    Damn. Sexuality sure is a bitch sometimes. I just recently discovered my ability to become aroused by gaining men (not to the extent that I am when the subject is a woman, but still). I am wondering how much left there is to explore, or whether I might have to keep redefining myself as I get older...
    My heart goes out to you.

    As for learning when I was a fat admirer: I was in middle school (about 13 years old) and my very first crush was a fat girl. I remember captivated by how beautiful she was. Unfortunately, though she knew I liked her, I didn't pursue her... fat stigma is the worst. :oops:
     
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    Always. My first part time job was a Lane Bryant stock boy so I could perv the ladies.
     
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    957A6FB9-E5A4-4E96-B7AF-46953F1B5FC9.jpeg Brie Brown. Love at first sight.
     
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    I honestly cannot recall a specific moment where it hit me, but as a kid I was always really interested in fat people. Like most people on here (I assume) Shallow Hal and other movies made it clear for me. No super exciting story for me. I remember discovering SSBBW/BBW models at about 13 or so on internet sites. I was into it way before that. Porn just gave me a kind of on demand access to it. Candy Godiva made a huge impression on me--might help explain why I am an apple lover
     
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    it all started with deviantart and a video game known as fat princess.......
     
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    I realized last night :p
     
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    With me, it was really weird. It really didn't start until my early thirties.
     
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    As soon as the hormones began to flow.
     
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    Pre-teen years. I saw Shallow
    Hal and realized I super dig fat Uma Thurman
     
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    It's Gwyneth Paltrow:)
     
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    You got to admit Uma Thurman fat would be awesome too
     
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    Meh. I'm exclusively into guys. Still, anyone can be improved with fat ;)
     
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    I need so much improvement lol
     
  17. Nov 30, 2019 #97

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    I was fairly young probably third grade when I knew I liked the chubbier girls at school. The ones that had chubbier arms, bigger bellies and chubbier faces....they were just much cuter than the skinny ones.

    As a young teen I realized I had a desire for the more mature feminine form and Fat. I had a friend of mine whose Mom was pretty with blonde curly hair and large breasts and a big butt. She would wear tight form fitting sweaters that showed off her huge breasts, muffin top with her much to tight jeans, huge butt and thighs. She happened to go up and down on the scale and this was the first time I realized how attracted I was to her huge breasts that became much bigger but her weight gain and much bigger size. She struggled to fit into her same jeans and sweaters with the sweater riding up exposing a huge roll of flesh that hung out over her waistband and the biggest lower belly still trying to be contained in her much to tight jeans. Her thighs would spread so wide and fat across the seat when she would drive us to school (car pool....yes). I found it really arousing when I heard the other Moms from the car pool gossiping and saying “have you seen how much weight Jennifer has put on again”? This was when I realized weight gain was the ultimate in arousal and sex for me....I would always dream of Jennifer gaining more weight and discussing it while I watched her getting fatter. The creative imagination with weight gain along with the visual was the ultimate for me.

    I had a girlfriend at 14 and she wasn’t Fat by any means but had a little soft belly on her and was very pretty and while we played around with each other I even started engaging in weight gain discussion and talk. I found my self squeezing her upper inner thighs and belly a lot. Pretty much finding any of the fatter parts on her figure. As time went on I would have other girlfriends all with a little more extra thickness and chin to them.

    My first serious girlfriend when I was around 16 and she was short and curvy with a belly and really thick thighs and butt. I Showed a lot of attention to her fatter body parts and we had discussions s early on about Fat and weight gain. She would openly discuss gaining weight and getting fatter in a teasing way because she knew how much I liked it. We would go out to eat and she would constantly over stuff herself and tell me how Fat I was goi g to get her.....this drove me crazy with arousal and she knew it. She started packing on the lbs. and wasn’t shy to tease herself and openly discuss it in front of her friends while I was around or her Mom which added to the excitement but was pretty embarrassing at times. We dated on and off and had a pretty deep connection. We got back together first year of college and she really took my fetish to the next level. She intentionally was gaining for me and It seemed a flip switched in her and she was turning Into a full on feedee. She gained 40 lbs in about 9 months and her new fatness was a topic between us and others all the time. I was living a weight gain dream in my relationship. She would struggle to fit into out grown clothes, tell me what she stuffed herself with at lunch when we weren’t together, tell me conversations all day long she had with friends and her Mother over her weight....it was arousal all the time. Moving on even though I could talk about this chapter all day.

    After college and since early on I found myself looking at and craving more and more weight on women.

    Cont’d - More to come -
     
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    I started dating slightly heavier girls than the last. This was my norm and most of my friends would consider them really hot but overweight (a few times even said they are really hot but could stand to lose 30-50 lbs. ......when all I wanted them to do is gain an extra 30-50 lbs.)

    My wife was a short curvy hottie when we were dating. Always had a great appetite and a big sweet tooth. She told me she used to be a “chunker” when she was younger and even got Fat in Hugh School. I didn’t believe it but let her know that I wouldn’t mind it one bit if she gained and got heavier.....in fact I told her to cut back on her working out every day so we could spend more time with our busy schedules. Soon her workouts were scaled back and our time together was more and she was usually always eating during these times great meals or snacking on the couch. It wasn’t long till her shorter se y figure fattened up. She didn’t love it but I certainly did. Since being married and having kids she has gained a bunch and slowly lost and regained several times. Still today she is t even close to as heavy as I would love her to get based on that higher weight point that has creeped up on my loving of more and more weight these days as opposed to a long time ago. I could definitely see her weighing 300+ lbs. and thinking she would look so beautiful that heavy.

    So this weight gain and love for Fat has been with me since an early age and has only increased as time has gone on exponentially.... it to mention the arousal and desires with weight gain!
     
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    I would say from the get go! Most of my female friends were chubby or not thin. It elevated in high school when my sister's friends would introduce me to their sisters.

    And then there's the [redacted]. Boy, those were the days!
     
  20. Dec 8, 2019 #100

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    I remember since being very, very young (3 or 4) enjoying getting hugs from bigger women, then when I was like 7 or 8, me and my friend played a game at school were we had to take food to a "fat woman" or else she'd get really really mad lol. It was my game and my buddy was just happy to play along with it, no idea if he's an FA now or not. But that's my earliest recollection of me fantasising about bigger women without actually understanding what was so appealing.
     

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