I figured it out in Jr HS that the bigger boys had tons more personality.
One boy named Jake caught my eye.He was really cute and cuddly so I HAD to sit next to him.
We talked about everything from girls/boys in class to music,art etc.
He was really smart but very shy so I had to work on him to get him to open up.
I've pretty much always known I've liked big girls for as long as I've been attracted to women. Funnily enough, though, I wasn't positive about my attraction to thin girls until I was older. I do have a strong preference for big girls, but some girls can indeed pull off that thin thing.
I seem to remember quite early on finding rounder girls far more attractive. . I used to think I was "odd", but as time passed I realized there were others with the same "preference" I have. . It's a blessing to be attracted to bbw and ssbbw, in my humble opinion.
When I was a kid some of my friends mothers were fat and I used to look at their fat and wonder how it looked naked and what it felt like, and one lady on my paper route used to lay out in the sun in her bikini and she was at least 250lbs or more, and this drove me bannanas! I used to linger around delivering her paper and was awestruck at the very sight of her. My first gf was a small bbw and I knew I was in my element when I found myself more attracted to her pot belly and rolls of fat than her huge chest and she was completely puzzled at why I spent more time playing with her fat belly than her massive chest. She wasn't very pleased about it at first, but she let me continue to play with her fat and the rest is history.
I think I discovered I was attracted to big guys as a senior in high school. My first love, Tony was about 5'10", 250 lbs. not big but not exactly a skinny guy either. After that up, until I was about 25 or so the guys were average sized until I met TJ and I have to say he's the one that really made up my mind for sure. Since then there have been a few above average size and one that started out as a skinny guy. The current guy is a SSBHM and proud of it. :smitten: