Where can I find a ssbbw

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    Hey all. I'm new to this forum and new to my particular area of the country (Northern CT). I'm a hair over 200 and my last girlfriend was about 525. I used to love having her dominate me and just bounce on my face and chest until it was almost too much to handle. But now, I'm in a new place and am having trouble knowing where to look. Can anyone give me some advice on where to find big women in New England?

    Thanks in advance.
     
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    Why not there?
     
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    His post reminded me of some guys in the old Dims Chat room many moons ago who talked about going to Walmart to "BBW watch". Turns out they were serious...so why not?
     
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    I have found some BBWs and SSBBWs there. But it's the too difficult to try to make a flirt right there. Long ago, a friend of mine told me supermarkets are very nice places to find a potential date but I still hvae doubts about it.
     
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    Supermarkets can be good places to make new friends, because you can always pull your "helpless male" act and ask her, e.g., "How can you tell if a cantaloupe is ripe?" Even if you don't get to first base with her, you at least end up with a nice, ripe cantaloupe.
     
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    Very nice idea but for me it works better at Walmart with the DVD baskets!
     
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    Ive heard this, too, but don't really see it/believe it either.
     
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    I sort of wonder the same thing as the original poster. I always thought picking up members of the opposite sex in the supermarket was super tacky. Everybody has seen those movies too. Heh. Besides, when you're in the store, most people want to get in and out as fast as possible nowadays.
    And I work nights and sleep days. I'm not part of any clubs, and I don't know how to find any around here, anyway. I find it difficult to just walk up and start yammering at a complete stranger.
    However there don't seem to be many online options anymore. Even craigslist personals shut down. Most of the "dating" sites are full of fake profiles that send you fake messages in order to get you to pay. Big sigh.
     
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    They're everywhere! And more so as time marches on in a fattening society. Many if not most SSBBWs I have found are married. If I cross paths with a big sexy gal I look for a wedding ring. Absent a wedding ring and if she is wicked-sexy I have found the best approach to be a candid, honest confession of attraction and ask if she's single. Experience has taught me that she will either be flattered or think me a weirdo. Either way I get an answer and sometimes a date(s).
     
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    I have the same experience as you. Most of the SSBBWs I met are married. There are others who are single but they are younger than me. Between 20 to 30. I just someone in my age range. And also I live in a place where there is any knowledge of the FA culture.
     
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    I agree with Goodman's approach. It may be old school these days, but it's my style. If you're past your early 20s, it not likely you're going to be in a club, so normal places that people go to is your best bet. I met my man through friends. I Never had the luck of running into someone while I was out at the grocery and such, but I do remember a few that I wish would have approached me :D
     
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    Any suggestions on best approaches?
     
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    For me, one of the best places to meet someone special are colleges. I met my first and only girlfriend at my years in college. It was when I was 26. It is very difficult to find a potential date because I wasn't not so good at romance, love, and social skills. I didn't have a problem if anyone call me a nerd. Certainly, I was proud of it.
     
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    Just be yourself :)
     
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    AmyJo1976 wrote:
    I met my man through friends. I Never had the luck of running into someone while I was out at the grocery and such, but I do remember a few that I wish would have approached me :D
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    I got no friends except online heh. All I seem to do is work and sleep. As a rule people don't like approaching me, due to the fact I yam physically disabled. So, I limit to online interactions.
    By the way, nice to be here guys. My name's Rob and I'm fairly new.
     
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    about 10 years ago I was at the local grocery with my brother. I had the cart my brother was doing runs for things. After running into the same guy in every aisle, I finally realized he was kind of watching me, as I was about to acknowledge him, my brother figured out the guy was following me and wanted to beat him up.... cautionary tale
     
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    Hi Rob, welcome to dimensions. Check out the welcome threads too!
     
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    That's the main danger for both parts. The chased person doesn't know if the chased is a person with a sincere interest in a serious relationship or he or she was a rapist.
     
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    Regardless of his motives, that's still really creepy to stalk someone like that in the grocery of all places!
     

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