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Wantabelly

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... of all the fake, two faced'ness, rude, attention seeking crap i've been seeing on here lately. This might be the last time I post on here so I just want to say my piece, and go. I started coming here to chat to BHMs and other FFAs, share experiences and celebrate fat. And it was great. It really became a place where i felt i belonged and somewhere I could totally get away... and it gave me the confidence to be what I am. Loved it. But now.... ???? What happened??

I see alot of comments made just for the sake of making a comment....

I hear people slagging each other off behind their backs and then being totally sweet to their faces... yes

Verbal abuse definitely on rise...

And then, come on girls, this is a place for big handsome men to be celebrated... not you.

On top of that, trying to spark up friendships with people has been like trying to get blood out of a stone... Is it really that hard to answer someone's email??

Anyway, I feel really honoured to have such a wonderful sexual preference, there is nothing like it. And when I found dimensions it was like the best feeling in the world to know I wasn't the only one. But in my eyes there is no BHM/FFA community and everyone is just out for themselves.

Signing out - see you later guys
 

Hole

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There are rotten apples everywhere. Don't limit or spite yourself.
:)Do you think you are out for yourself? I think the answer is, no.Then what makes you think, others here don't have good intentions too? We're all people with good and bad sides. It's not you against everyone or everyone against you.Like I said, don't let a few (or more) spoil the experience. How are things going to change if people leave whenever they are mistreated or feel emotional/angry? You speak your mind and try to use your best judgement to acquire bonds. That's all you can do. Just like you can get hurt in the 'real world' by putting yourself out there, you can get hurt here. I know the internet is an escape to many and you aren't supposed to be dealing with drama.. but lets face it, we're human beings. It's inevitable. We're different and we're going to butt heads. I hope you calm down and realize this place isn't as bad as you think it is.
 

kinkykitten

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:( Will be really sad to see you leave pretty lady.... Hope you reconsider :kiss2:
 

vardon_grip

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You have to look at this place like it's high school and treat it as such. Petty bullshit masquerades as headline news. A lot of members apparently forgot what is was like to be bullied because they seem to relish in being bullies now. There are popular cliques and teachers pets galore. To round it all out there are lecherous gym teachers and creepy custodians.
If you don't like any of these groups, start or join an after school club with the kids that share your same interests.
Other than that...we're not kids without voices anymore and if you see things that are unfair, prejudiced, small-minded or stupid high school crap, call it out and stand up to it. Good luck.
 

HDANGEL15

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I wanna be the *lecherous gym teacher* then....
come on all you BHM's..show up to gym class in nice SLIGHTY TOO short t-shirts or wife-beaters

PULEASSSSSSSSSSSSSSSE :smitten:

so I can watch you as I push you

perhaps 12 oz curls....donut eating contests or pie eating....

hmmm what else would your *dream* gym class be..:D
 

Ninja Glutton

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No. It's too much of a shame to lose someone who's been a positive cotributor on so many topics and threads. I won't allow it. :(
 

Canonista

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I wanna be the *lecherous gym teacher* then....
come on all you BHM's..show up to gym class in nice SLIGHTY TOO short t-shirts or wife-beaters

PULEASSSSSSSSSSSSSSSE :smitten:

so I can watch you as I push you

perhaps 12 oz curls....donut eating contests or pie eating....

hmmm what else would your *dream* gym class be..:D
That whole "lecherous gym teacher" gig doesn't work as well as one might expect...
http://www.mipsor.state.mi.us/PSORSearchDetails.aspx?oid=8442225
 

Jackoblangada

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I am saddened to say it, but I am afraid I agree with Wantbelly. Just the last two weeks alone has seen a really sad decline in the level and quality of discourse around here. Babble for the sake of babble, noise just to make noise.
I have taken breaks over the years and waited for the down times to pass, maybe this is one of those times.
 

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I am saddened to say it, but I am afraid I agree with Wantbelly. Just the last two weeks alone has seen a really sad decline in the level and quality of discourse around here. Babble for the sake of babble, noise just to make noise.
I have taken breaks over the years and waited for the down times to pass, maybe this is one of those times.
You have to look at the big picture. Dimensions, including its BHM/FFA community, has been around for 25 years, so what happens in two weeks or four isn't very representative of the state of things at any given time. In any community there can be conflict, which is generally handled internally via the stated and implied rules of the community. At times things can get out of hand or debates can escalate. Then, too much intervention is viewed as censorship whereas too little is decried as the imminent demise of a place or institution. By and large, if there's common sense and a vision of the big picture, things inevitably work themselves out and get back on course.
 

Melian

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You have to look at the big picture. Dimensions, including its BHM/FFA community, has been around for 25 years, so what happens in two weeks or four isn't very representative of the state of things at any given time. In any community there can be conflict, which is generally handled internally via the stated and implied rules of the community. At times things can get out of hand or debates can escalate. Then, too much intervention is viewed as censorship whereas too little is decried as the imminent demise of a place or institution. By and large, if there's common sense and a vision of the big picture, things inevitably work themselves out and get back on course.
^^^ this.

Also, I think most of the inane posts are the result of winter-boredness (mine are, at least). And then, as in life, some people here are just annoying - anything they say will be annoying, so use that block function and filter out the tards.

(Wantabelly; please stay. You're awesome and there's no reason to leave over a few stupid weeks. I agree with you 100% on the excessive female photo posting, too. This section is here to appreciate the MEN, not to get low quality softcore porn of random chicks, but we've already been over this one ;) )
 

WillSpark

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1. I agree with those who don't want to see a valued member leave.

2. If we play out the High School thing, I want to be the football teams star defender. Y'know, that guy who's big, but it's okay with everyone 'cuz he's an awesome blocker.

Or the cooking teacher. That would work too! :D
 

Canonista

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I know I wouldn't report her ;)
Female teachers don't get caught because the student tells on them.

They get caught when the teacher sends "I love you" text messages to the student's phone and nude photos to the guy's e-mail.

What goes on in HDANGEL15's office STAYS in HDANGEL15's office.

It's kinda like Fight Club that way...:p
 

Uriel

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Ah lovely Miss,

If you run off, who will I take to dinner if I ever get to England? I had this fantasy of getting to meet you (And your boy, not a creepy fantasy), as well as several others, when I visit my sister in France (Possibly next Summer), and the surrounding countries. This is sad news, as I really enjoy your contribution to the conversations that you engage in.
As far as the girls posting pictures thing, I shall tentatively have to protest/disagree just a bit. As a big guy, and one who has not always been 100% self-assured, it helps/feels really great to have so many girls (Of all shapes, sizes and sorts) show their appreciation of us.
My cockiness aside as far as getting action (I am a bartender...), when I am away from here, at work, wherever, I live in a city/state where fat is not beautiful for most of the folks around me.
Like most guys here, I have heard the 'Wow, you would be really cute if you were 20,50,100,etc... pounds lighter'. It is really wonderful to find somewhere where that isn't the case, but where the girls flirt and tease that maybe you could stand to put on a pound of 50.
I'm actually a little teary with the posting of the last couple of sentences,
from memories, as well as the reality that with your loss (And your feelings of loss here), there's one less wonderful girl here to show us the love and appreciation that this community does.

Ciao, lovely Miss

-Uriel (Ron)

PS: I know, I know, I sure say lovely Miss a lot...but that's how I address girls in the real world, and most find it a far better cry than babe,chick,whatever... :)
 

BLUEeyedBanshee

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You have to look at the big picture. Dimensions, including its BHM/FFA community, has been around for 25 years, so what happens in two weeks or four isn't very representative of the state of things at any given time. In any community there can be conflict, which is generally handled internally via the stated and implied rules of the community. At times things can get out of hand or debates can escalate. Then, too much intervention is viewed as censorship whereas too little is decried as the imminent demise of a place or institution. By and large, if there's common sense and a vision of the big picture, things inevitably work themselves out and get back on course.
Yep what the boss said.

I definitely agree that some of the thread that have popped up are more than likely out of winter boredom. (I hope)

Wantabelly, you are definitely a valued member of the community and I'd hate to see you go.
 

Canonista

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Yep what the boss said.

I definitely agree that some of the thread that have popped up are more than likely out of winter boredom. (I hope)

Wantabelly, you are definitely a valued member of the community and I'd hate to see you go.

It's Sunday. Shouldn't you be off molesting your boyfriend or something...
 
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