You know you are an Fa when.......?

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  1. Dec 9, 2016 #621

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    Another trick is to be deliberately awkward, to cover the actual awkwardness (and to get out of the situation without having to give an insincere compliment). "I could tell -- actually I was worried that you might be sick. Oh, I'm sorry, that sounds awful, you probably were working really hard on it, and I didn't mean that you looked sickly, it is just that I had an aunt who lost a lot of weight from an illness so it always jumps to mind, and I should probably stop babbling now!"
     
  2. Dec 10, 2016 #622

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    When a co-worker of mine mentioned to me she had lost weight (she prefaced with "I'm not sure if you'd noticed or not, but...") I was just honest. I told her I had noticed but would never have brought up the subject until she did because it's a topic that is likely very close to the individual at hand. That seemed a nice balanced answer and nobody's feeling were hurt, no awkwardness, etc.
     
  3. Dec 11, 2016 #623

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    Or you could just say, you are looking good as always, (or some version thereof) in response to both putting on and losing weight.
     
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    I think working at a call center one of the few things it makes it more bearable (or much more difficult) is the presence of larger ladies. It is good to see an abundance of attractive ladies but the allocated break is too short to socialize with a lady, to chat up and managed to secure a date and then I am too hesitant to approach anyone of those plump/BBW I am working with because I don't want to get a reputation of trying too hard to get a date while at the work.
     
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    Big lots® puts on their secondary TV commercials with BBW sized woman, and you instantly notice .


















    want to record them again and again. Matter of fact, you want to go
     
  6. Dec 23, 2016 #626

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    I typically get the; you look like you are really enjoying yourself comment the most.
     
  7. Dec 28, 2016 #627

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    You know you're (being admired by) an FA when they drive sooo slow down the road just to watch you walk. (And then flirt with you for several minutes when the car catches up to you.)
     
  8. Dec 28, 2016 #628

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    You know you're an FA when you always prefer to assist fat customers at work :D
     
  9. Dec 28, 2016 #629

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    Oh, complete opposite. Think I'm bashful with mediapathically acceptable women, dangle fat bait in front of me, see how that works. (Some people are naturally disarming, however.)

    One sort of place I will never apply to work for? GenPop clothing store. I don't need the constant boner or the constant threat of termination = P
     
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  10. Dec 28, 2016 #630

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    Oh I think you could handle it;)
     
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    When you notice your partner's jeans are looking loose, and you can't help but hope that the jeans have just become stretched out ... (and then of course feel a bit guilty for feeling that if you know your partner would generally like to be lighter, sigh)
     
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    When you realize that you can't EVER recall ever thinking to yourself, "that ass is too big"!
     
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    I still remember this only one time I surprized myself to say it out loud while watching the TV nearly two weeks ago... still thyrsting, though:


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    I know what you mean about call centers. I took on a part-time gig a couple years ago, and was amazed at the number of BBWs and SSBWS in the office. While the work was grim and the pay wasn't anything special, I sure did enjoy the views which were accentuated by the casual dress code which showed off their considerable curves!
     
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    When you see all those weight loss ads and you love more the pictures of 'before' instead of the 'after'!!!
     
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    While the others dread and fear weight gain after marriage, you look forward to it.
     
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    You know you're one when your favorite girl watching venue is Walmart
     
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    You know that you're an FA, when you overhear friends expressing concern that you never manage to find a decent man to date, just an endless string of fat guys, and you just smile philosophical and think, "YEAH!!!"
     
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    You know you're an FA, when you and your boyfriend think that it's sexy to call each other "Fat Boy".
     
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    you know when, you see a plump round curvy lady and you take a second, third, and fourth glance - and yearn to take a fifth
     

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