Your SO's initial reaction to your body

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Barbsjw

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How did your SO react to your body (and/or you to their's if you're a FA) the first time you were intimate?

I thought Roger was a big beautiful bear of a man, no complaints. :). I wasn't sure he'd be impressed by my body, I kept saying,"you won't like what you're about to see." He kept reassuring me I was sexy and beautiful. I said it again as I went to take off my (granny) panties. I dropped them on the floor and his smile just grew. I felt so loved and validated in that moment. As we cuddled afterwards, I asked about his reaction to my bush (I assumed it would freak him out, given porn's disdain for it). He assured me he loved my soft, furry body.
 
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My wife was much smaller when we met. There was no initial “reaction” for either of us because we sort of slowly built up to it our first time together.

love this topic though. I remember previous partners hesitant to take off their clothes as if I was going to be surprised she was concealing a fat girl underneath there! One I’ve mentioned here a few times was hesitant at first because her husband had recently left her for a thinner more conventionally “hot” woman. She was hesitant with her 5’2 and 358 pound body until she realized I legitimately adored what I had with her. Then she flipped the switch and more or less dominated me.

Back to my wife, because her body has changed so much during our time together our approach to image with each other has evolved. She went through a phase where she hated her body and I wasn’t allowed to adore it. Now she still isn’t happy but expects the adoration from me.
 

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in my case... my wife has gained about half her weight since we got married. at first she was slightly , deliciously curvy, you could even say chubby probably, and she was super concious about her weight and about any roll that may escape over the jeans waist. she prefered light out when she was naked and tried to cover any views i may get on her full body. i think we have improved a lot from that point. not only the weight gain has helped but she is a bit more in peace with being overweight as well. we have not come to the point of celebrating her gaining weight but at least she is eating freely and when clothes don't fit she does get angry at first but eventually ends up buying bigger clothes. i am more than fine with that.
 

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My wife has joked about my small paunch stating just don’t let it get so big that I cannot see everything below it. She doesn’t focus at all intimately on it.

As to her, only recently had she allowed me to grab her firming roll and display affection to her belly. She doesn’t feel she can get sexy lingierie though, which I’ve assure isn’t true as she’s just barely over the 200 lb mark.
 

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I’d say that my husband (my almost boyfriend back then) loved seeing me naked and being intimate with me, judging by his big b- ...never mind. I remember he asked to touch and kiss certain parts of my body before doing so (a true southern gentleman), and he later told me he was surprised by my rather un-southernly, un-ladylike bedroom knowledge. In person, I come across as quiet or reserved to people I’m not familiar with, and I had only known him for a few weeks during our first intimate night. He stopped by my house and surprised me with flowers and chocolates the next evening after work because he didn’t want me to feel like his feelings had changed after having sex with me. I told you, southern gentleman!

As far as my reaction to seeing his body...I didn’t really have one. I was more turned on by his tattoos and his intelligence. But now that he’s almost 100 pounds fatter than that day, I get turned on by way more than just his tattoos. 😍
 
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First time seeing my hubby's body for the first time was the also the first time we ever hung out in person (🤷🏼‍♀️ 😝woops!!) The first thought that ran through my head, when he took his clothes off was, "ohh he's a lot smaller in person than he looks with clothes on or in pictures," (body wise, not d**k) I was kinda taken back but it didn't stop nothing. He really liked my body, a lot. I was/am the smallest girl he's been with. Which he likes that I am as that's his type. He thought being he's bigger he couldn't get smaller girls.

It wasn't a great first time squeaky wheels on the bed frame, kept hitting the wall, and a squeaky mattress!! Oh and his Mom and Step dad came back mid way through so we were trying to be quiet... Fun time haha 😂😂

I was also terrified we wasn't going to talk to me, he just wanted some, but obviously he did we're married with a baby now.
 

Tempere

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No bedframes in danger here. Just a few pairs of blown out underwear and ill fitting shirts between the two of us.
 
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