That Guy You Met Once
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It's the second question down in last week's column.
I'm surprised no one noticed this with all the negative attention he's gotten on here - I guess we can put at least some of that talk about him being a fat-hater to rest, then.
His advice is pretty solid, but I find it kind of weird how many commenters are saying "don't mention that you're attracted to her for her weight at all."
By all means, treat her like an ordinary person and don't be a pig, but if everyone else gets to point out what physical qualities they like in a partner, I don't see why we should be told to keep it quiet at all times - I'm sure bodybuilders and models know what their significant others find hot about them. Maybe if they reject you for it, they're too close-minded to have a good relationship with an FA anyway.
Plus, if there's a real connection beyond the physical, it'll be obvious.
I'm surprised no one noticed this with all the negative attention he's gotten on here - I guess we can put at least some of that talk about him being a fat-hater to rest, then.
His advice is pretty solid, but I find it kind of weird how many commenters are saying "don't mention that you're attracted to her for her weight at all."
By all means, treat her like an ordinary person and don't be a pig, but if everyone else gets to point out what physical qualities they like in a partner, I don't see why we should be told to keep it quiet at all times - I'm sure bodybuilders and models know what their significant others find hot about them. Maybe if they reject you for it, they're too close-minded to have a good relationship with an FA anyway.
Plus, if there's a real connection beyond the physical, it'll be obvious.
