fitnessdrummer
Well-Known Member
Hello everybody! My name is Alex. I'm a drummer, a marketing guy, a fitness devotee, and a culinary shall we say experimenter. 
I've also been a FA for as long as I can remember. I live in southern CA, commuting between LA and OC. I look forward to sharing with and learning from you all.
As a fitter, somewhat muscular guy, I find that when I approach a big, beautiful woman, i'm often met with skepticism, or even refusal to make eye-contact. Now, I understand the pressure and norms that society dictates when a large woman is approached by a smaller man.
I have no difficulty meeting slimmer women, no lack of confidence, and perhaps that's part of my problem. But stick just figures don't turn my head. I've been happiest emotionally and sexually with large women but I have trouble making that first move right.
So, I'm looking for your help. Help me understand the way I should be thinking, speaking, and acting. I want to stop scaring away the soft, curvy creates of the world! :blush:
Thank you for letting me be a part of your community.
I've also been a FA for as long as I can remember. I live in southern CA, commuting between LA and OC. I look forward to sharing with and learning from you all.As a fitter, somewhat muscular guy, I find that when I approach a big, beautiful woman, i'm often met with skepticism, or even refusal to make eye-contact. Now, I understand the pressure and norms that society dictates when a large woman is approached by a smaller man.
I have no difficulty meeting slimmer women, no lack of confidence, and perhaps that's part of my problem. But stick just figures don't turn my head. I've been happiest emotionally and sexually with large women but I have trouble making that first move right.
So, I'm looking for your help. Help me understand the way I should be thinking, speaking, and acting. I want to stop scaring away the soft, curvy creates of the world! :blush:
Thank you for letting me be a part of your community.
