DitzyBrunette
Well, filibuster.
There's also fat characters in videogames. This is the case Eve of the classic 1991 game Dragon's Lair 2: Time Warp!
And Ellie in Borderlands!
There's also fat characters in videogames. This is the case Eve of the classic 1991 game Dragon's Lair 2: Time Warp!
Thank you so much for your help, @DitzyBrunette! I have not much knowledge of today's games but I have found this on Ellie!And Ellie in Borderlands!
Driving down my memory lanes, I have found I just watched a movie made for TV in the early 90s with a plot based on the weight of a lady.
It was titled Babycakes. And, as a matter of bonus points, I also found it was the american remake of a German movie, Zuckerbaby!
On this video, we have a comparison between the two movies:
I only saw it once but I never remember it's title until now.I saw this on TV when it was relatively new (January, 1990)
The star character was Ricki Lake, who would go on to have a long career.
I found this show Hot and Heavy on TLC while watching My Big Fat Fabulous Life. Looks interesting, watching it now.
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Frankly, it pissed me off. I watched all three available episodes already, and it angered me. Two of the guys seem to love their women for who they are, but the third just wanted a fat girl, didn't matter about anything else. But it was the reactions from everyone else - who I sincerely hope were hired as actors - when they acted like *GASP* a FAT person has the audacity to be out in public and eating or drinking or just existing. One couple goes to therapy and the therapist, a doctor, for fucks sake, says that the guy "prefers his wife heavy, that's rare." Like, what?! The ignorance of the whole thing was infuriating. Everyone was awful, ignorant, rude, just horrid people.I remember this show stirred up a little controversy when it came out (I think some people felt it was maybe a bit sexist as they only featured fat women and no fat men?)
What did you think @DitzyBrunette?
Frankly, it pissed me off. I watched all three available episodes already, and it angered me. Two of the guys seem to love their women for who they are, but the third just wanted a fat girl, didn't matter about anything else. But it was the reactions from everyone else - who I sincerely hope were hired as actors - when they acted like *GASP* a FAT person has the audacity to be out in public and eating or drinking or just existing. One couple goes to therapy and the therapist, a doctor, for fucks sake, says that the guy "prefers his wife heavy, that's rare." Like, what?! The ignorance of the whole thing was infuriating. Everyone was awful, ignorant, rude, just horrid people.
So more "heavy" and not so much "hot."
Seems like so many of these kinds of shows are meant to celebrate ignorant views and deplorable behavior... but maybe that's just me. Either way it's too bad; a wasted opportunity to create something unique and special.
Apparently no one (except us Dims folk) wants to see what you are describing. This type of show sets a bad example for young people who may be struggling with their identity or weight (or both). What does it say to girls/young women; you can't be overweight and find a good man? And since bigger guys are not represented AT ALL, what does that say to them? Society doesn't even think you're worth it? Geeze, this is sad.Apparently the "hot" part was supposed to be the thin, society accepted "normal" sized men, and the heavy was the long suffering women who could not possibly be described as hot themselves or ever land an average sized man. I tell you, infuriating. I would not have watched it had I known. I thought it was to show overweight women in normal everyday relationships, but the show was just to showcase more ignorance.
Apparently no one (except us Dims folk) wants to see what you are describing. This type of show sets a bad example for young people who may be struggling with their identity or weight (or both). What does it say to girls/young women; you can't be overweight and find a good man? And since bigger guys are not represented AT ALL, what does that say to them? Society doesn't even think you're worth it? Geeze, this is sad.![]()
I did kinda gloss over the self-worth aspect, lumping it with identity, but I agree with your point. Sadly, we shouldn't look to the media for any validation of our own self-esteem. It will be another 20 years before they really get onboard in a greater way. It's probably why I find big gals who have confidence to be so alluring. It's sometimes a rarity.I'm also concerned about their self worth in general, not just finding a man, and this show just shits all over the idea that an overweight woman should be allowed the right to have any self-esteem.
I see bigger guys all the time on tv, though. Heck, my favorite actor is Kevin James, an overweight guy who starred in his own show for 9 years and had a beautiful thin tv wife. Bigger guys with dad bods are considered hot (I don't disagree, they are lol) and they find fame easily. But fat actresses land roles where their fat is the identity of the character. I hate the media sometimes.
As far as bigger guys with dad bods being hot, could you please let me know where in the world there are more women who have that opinion. I think myself and great many of the BHM's around here would gladly pick up and move to that neighborhood!
Was thinking of this cartoon this morning. The fun starts at 3:00...
I was all about Leslie Boone.It's a shame when we have to face stereotypes in media, but also it's also a shame when a production just arises on mainstream media and we the fat condemned it by the same standard we condemned mainstream media that made a mockery of us.
This is the case of a wonderful TV show titled babes. I just loved it but the criticism made to shorten it's life to only 28 episodes.
I still miss it so much that I have tried to find on DVD but it was impossible to find.
I remember I had a crush on the late Susan Peretz.
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