So I was pretty hesitant to post this thread because it's something I've always been pretty insecure about, but I feel this is a safe space so here we go...
I'm 5'2", 220lbs...but I have very small breasts. I'm talking, a very small 38B. They are basically flat on my chest when I lie down. I have always felt a little less feminine to have such small breasts. Not to mention it makes me feel a bit ostracized from the rest of the BBW community...I have seen FA's on this forum, and elsewhere, talk about how one of the bonuses of being with a big girl is her supersized boobs. Needless to say, this kind of talk makes me feel very excluded from being considered attractive to ANYONE, even FA's! I've even heard such derogatory statements (not here, but elsewhere on the interwebz) as "fat girls with no tits are the absolute WORST." Statements like that make me feel pretty worthless. Plus, it doesn't help that I've never had a successful relationship - I've never known what it's like for a guy to really appreciate my body for what it is (and isn't, I suppose), so I really feel quite lost...
So I'm just wondering if there's anyone who can relate to this and possibly offer some encouraging words.
I'm 5'2", 220lbs...but I have very small breasts. I'm talking, a very small 38B. They are basically flat on my chest when I lie down. I have always felt a little less feminine to have such small breasts. Not to mention it makes me feel a bit ostracized from the rest of the BBW community...I have seen FA's on this forum, and elsewhere, talk about how one of the bonuses of being with a big girl is her supersized boobs. Needless to say, this kind of talk makes me feel very excluded from being considered attractive to ANYONE, even FA's! I've even heard such derogatory statements (not here, but elsewhere on the interwebz) as "fat girls with no tits are the absolute WORST." Statements like that make me feel pretty worthless. Plus, it doesn't help that I've never had a successful relationship - I've never known what it's like for a guy to really appreciate my body for what it is (and isn't, I suppose), so I really feel quite lost...
So I'm just wondering if there's anyone who can relate to this and possibly offer some encouraging words.
