Callous behavior and attitude is still callous behavior and attitude no matter whom it comes from or based on what reasoning.I feel some hostility coming from your post, but I'm going to try to answer it as calmly and respectfully as I can.
No, I will not say that I don't see anything wrong with how people are sometimes treated here. (And it feels hostile that you'd paint me that way.) What I disagree with is that it is a BHM/FFA issue. I don't see BHM being ganged up on because they are BHM; I see drive-by meanness towards people of every ilk. I'd like someone to show me where BHM are treated badly for being BHM, and not just treated with the same callous disregard as everyone else here.
I've been mean to people on the boards before. I regret it, and apologize for it. I'm just a person, fallible as anyone, and I make mistakes. I'm trying to be better. I'm trying to not say things just because they're funny.
I think that fat women contend with life just as well as fat men. I am kind of confused as to how that relates...real life is NOT dims.
Without generalizing too much, and I'm really unsure if it's true or not, maybe there is a growing trend of how often "BHM's" are mistreated more often than others (here specifically on Dimensions). I think it might be possible that due to the amount of 'hostility' being felt by the "BHM's", a more widespread marginalized trend of feeling is occurring. I hope that's not the case, but it is possible.
It might also be possible that the people that feel such a way are more sensitive to negative remarks than others, and it might just happen to be (coincidence - not a trend) a more common trait found in the "BHM's" here at Dimensions.
Food for though, I suppose.
But yes, assholes will be assholes, usually to everyone (and possibly more harsh to one type of person than others).