Hey lovers of all things large...
Has anyone experienced a role reversal in their relationship? Did you start out as a feeder and end up gaining weight as the feedee? Or did you start to lose weight and get into shape while your skinny partner started to pile on the pounds?
As we gear up for our daughter's 8th birthday (yikes! so old so quick!) we were looking through old photos, and it quickly became apparent we've had such a shift in our relationship.
The pictures are shocking... At our daughter's first birthday, my partner Samantha was a hefty 450 lbs, while I was probably not much more than 250 (maybe 275). Sam was a very active gainer at that time, eventually adding almost another 100 lbs at her heaviest (it was am-az-ing!).
In the last several years, as a health and lifestyle choice, Sam gave up the gainer lifestyle and her weight has come down to the low 300s (maybe 320). Meanwhile, due to a number of factors (older, a more sedentary job, some illness), without trying, I'd started to gain weight. Now I'm at the heaviest i've ever been, 428 lbs as of yesterday.
It's taken some getting used to, and Sam is very happy with my growth, although I admit i do miss her formerly massive hips & bum (her current chubby bum is still pretty cute tho
).
Anyone else experience this? It hasn't hurt our relationship, in fact it has been kind of a pleasant sharing experience, but I can see how it could be difficult for some.
Cheers, Brenda.
Has anyone experienced a role reversal in their relationship? Did you start out as a feeder and end up gaining weight as the feedee? Or did you start to lose weight and get into shape while your skinny partner started to pile on the pounds?
As we gear up for our daughter's 8th birthday (yikes! so old so quick!) we were looking through old photos, and it quickly became apparent we've had such a shift in our relationship.
The pictures are shocking... At our daughter's first birthday, my partner Samantha was a hefty 450 lbs, while I was probably not much more than 250 (maybe 275). Sam was a very active gainer at that time, eventually adding almost another 100 lbs at her heaviest (it was am-az-ing!).
In the last several years, as a health and lifestyle choice, Sam gave up the gainer lifestyle and her weight has come down to the low 300s (maybe 320). Meanwhile, due to a number of factors (older, a more sedentary job, some illness), without trying, I'd started to gain weight. Now I'm at the heaviest i've ever been, 428 lbs as of yesterday.
It's taken some getting used to, and Sam is very happy with my growth, although I admit i do miss her formerly massive hips & bum (her current chubby bum is still pretty cute tho
).Anyone else experience this? It hasn't hurt our relationship, in fact it has been kind of a pleasant sharing experience, but I can see how it could be difficult for some.
Cheers, Brenda.
