This one's for everyone, but I'm more interested in the answers from the ladies - preferably feedees - so don't be shy. Recently I read a nice young lady's complaints about the inability to find a, "real feeder". I was a bit taken aback because there doesn't seem to be a shortage of feeders out there. So, I wonder what key characteristic is it that is lacking from all the less-than-real feeders out there. Are there things you look for beyond what you would in a partner? Do you think you're looking for something reasonable or something unrealistic?