Okay, so imagine someone has promised that they will call you on a certain night, and then they completely fail to call. Between the time they fail to call and the time you talk to them, what do you think?
My first (sane) though was "Oh, he/she probably got called into work and couldn't call." My second (insane) thought was "He/she is not interested and didn't want to talk to me." I call that second thought insane because as far as I can tell there is absolutely no reason she would not want to talk to me and the last time we were together she was very interested. *chuckle* Apparently I am just extremely paranoid when it comes to relationships.
So, what do you think when someone doesn't call?
My first (sane) though was "Oh, he/she probably got called into work and couldn't call." My second (insane) thought was "He/she is not interested and didn't want to talk to me." I call that second thought insane because as far as I can tell there is absolutely no reason she would not want to talk to me and the last time we were together she was very interested. *chuckle* Apparently I am just extremely paranoid when it comes to relationships.
So, what do you think when someone doesn't call?