I'm pretty fresh here, but i've read about FA's who're unsure or doubting.
It made me wonder. How can it be that a selfconcious kid like myself came out the closet shortly after puberty and others never really can...?
Could this be a result of finding out you are an FA before puberty or finding this out after or during puberty?
I mean, when you take your admiration for BBW trough those strange and exploring years this makes quite a difference in the rest of becoming an adult. Then being an FA is just a simple fact of life.
But when puberty makes you wonder what's your preference... instead of getting your sexuality sorted out... Well, i imagine you have to catch up with doubts in a stage of life that leaves far less space for this.
If one's aware of this, there might be ways to overcome this problem. I don't know how, but i do know that one has to be carefull not to pass these doubts to women who allready have to be tougher then the rest.
Anyway, it's just a theory.
It made me wonder. How can it be that a selfconcious kid like myself came out the closet shortly after puberty and others never really can...?
Could this be a result of finding out you are an FA before puberty or finding this out after or during puberty?
I mean, when you take your admiration for BBW trough those strange and exploring years this makes quite a difference in the rest of becoming an adult. Then being an FA is just a simple fact of life.
But when puberty makes you wonder what's your preference... instead of getting your sexuality sorted out... Well, i imagine you have to catch up with doubts in a stage of life that leaves far less space for this.
If one's aware of this, there might be ways to overcome this problem. I don't know how, but i do know that one has to be carefull not to pass these doubts to women who allready have to be tougher then the rest.
Anyway, it's just a theory.
