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When I was at my heaviest and very very depressed I used to obsess about how paramedics/my mother and family/coroners/crematorium would handle my 500 lb body if I died.Usually when thinking about suicide and thankfully I think these thoughts partially kept me here. I didn't want to burden my family with thinking of those things... When my partner died last summer I had a flash of that as they came for his body.In all my shell shocked grief I can't believe I would even think that but I did... He was a bigger guy around 280 (same as I am now)and there was some grunting and manuevering but everything went pretty smoothly with two attendents. I had attempted CPR on him when I found him and had to move him off of the bed so know how hard that was even with adrenaline I was feeling...He was hard to move...
I was wondering if someone with more knowledge than me can shed a little light on what is done with larger sized bodies after death. We all hear tales of being buried in a piano box (urban legends?)etc but I can imagine someone being in a marriage with a super sized person having concerns like this but feeling daunted about broaching the subject. I don't want to seem morbid or insensitive but it's something plaguing my thoughts lately. Thanks
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I was wondering if someone with more knowledge than me can shed a little light on what is done with larger sized bodies after death. We all hear tales of being buried in a piano box (urban legends?)etc but I can imagine someone being in a marriage with a super sized person having concerns like this but feeling daunted about broaching the subject. I don't want to seem morbid or insensitive but it's something plaguing my thoughts lately. Thanks
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