davidburton
FA Intern....
Conversation between me and a friend last night:
My friend: Meredith is hot, I would definitely smash.
Me: Nah, I wouldn't. Not really my type.
friend: Well what's your type then?
Me: Very chubby to fat.
friend: Really, that's interesting...
And that was the first time I've ever "come out" to anyone in person. Not that I've been hiding it. I've always told myself that I would tell anyone honestly if they ever asked. Interestingly, none of my friends have ever directly asked me(or really even indirectly asked me) in the seven or eight years I've had this preference until yesterday.
My question is: Have you ever come out to people before? Why? If you haven't, do you assume most people you know well have figured it out?
In my case I've never thought it necessary to tell the important people in my life that I'm an FA because they've seen who I choose to date and what kind of girls my eyes wander to, so I assume that they can put the pieces together. Basically, I don't feel like I owe anyone a "coming out", because I've never hidden my preference or lied about it.
My friend: Meredith is hot, I would definitely smash.
Me: Nah, I wouldn't. Not really my type.
friend: Well what's your type then?
Me: Very chubby to fat.
friend: Really, that's interesting...
And that was the first time I've ever "come out" to anyone in person. Not that I've been hiding it. I've always told myself that I would tell anyone honestly if they ever asked. Interestingly, none of my friends have ever directly asked me(or really even indirectly asked me) in the seven or eight years I've had this preference until yesterday.
My question is: Have you ever come out to people before? Why? If you haven't, do you assume most people you know well have figured it out?
In my case I've never thought it necessary to tell the important people in my life that I'm an FA because they've seen who I choose to date and what kind of girls my eyes wander to, so I assume that they can put the pieces together. Basically, I don't feel like I owe anyone a "coming out", because I've never hidden my preference or lied about it.
