i do agree,a woman can look at you,and just smile,and sometimes you just feel an instant spark,even though you haven't talked to her or anything like that yet,you just feel an unknown aura of attraction and spark.it's hard to explain the feelings,it feels like it could be a mixture of lust,attraction,and something else.like i said feels just like magic.LOLTo me this is the most true. I believe in chemical induction at first sight which leads to feelings of euphoria and attraction. I personally believe love is more than an emotion and as such can be built and strengthened much more than any feeling. The funny thing is its hard to build that bond without "The Spark". So if you feel like I just contradicted myself maybe I did. I'm sure I'm not the first person in the universe to believe and disbelieve a concept that has no form or true language, only the shape we give it with our own thoughts and experiences.
It really just is one of those "Chicken & the Egg" kind of things to me. :happy:
well said i do agree.the people i have that instant connection with are the ones i feel i know longer,and the ones that usually stay around.No, I believe that love has to be mutual and mature. I have felt the spark numerous times though and must say that the elusive chemistry pushes me to work a lot harder at those relationships.