Gained weight and visiting family for the holidays

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  1. Dec 24, 2018 #1

    HungryGirl

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    Merry Christmas eve! My husband has been fattening me up but I didn't realize how much until I'm about to visit family! I haven't seen them for a while and I've gained like 20 pounds...I was around 180 then 190 and now I'm just hitting 210. Plus I'm only 5 feet tall lol. I know I'm going to hear something about it. Wish me luck friends!
     

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    I hope it is going ok!
     
  3. Dec 31, 2018 #3

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    you look cute thanks for sharing the pic. visiting family... friends... yes, i can generate all kinds of comments. i mean each family is different but there is always one annoying relative who cannot fully understand who much good does some added weight to a woman's sex appeal and looks. and they can be mean and it is difficult to give an answer that deter them from asking more stupid questions or else. my best wishes go out and please keep us updated,
     
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    I hope they were ok with it but nothing they can do about it right?
     
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    Thanks guys, I appreciate it! It went really well. One person poked me in the tummy but it wasn't so bad :)
     
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    Sometimes people do manage to be better than we fear :)
     
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  7. Jan 1, 2019 #7

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    I know things can sometimes be different for men than for women but I've been big all my life.I've had family & other people try to tell me ways to lose weight & HOW much better I'll feel if I do.I politely tell them that's you not me.I'm happy exactly as I am.I've done the same thing with Drs.When I 1st meet a new Dr. IF they mention my weight I tell them I'm happy with how I am & for them to deal with whatever issue I'm having in a more professional way because just because I'm fat doesn't mean that's what's causing my problem.
     
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  8. Jan 28, 2019 #8

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    Awesome way to handle it. I've done the same... especially with Drs.
     

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