StrugglingWriter
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So it seems I've always done this thing. I date a woman for a while, and then I start focusing on the more unattractive things about her and can't stop doing it. Little things...for instance, with the woman I've been most madly in love with in my life I started focusing on how her arms seemed a little too short. I broke up with her for other reasons (i.e., her insanity) before this really became a big focus, but little thigns like that have always bothered me the longer I've dated a woman.
I have a feeling if I'd ever dated Claudia Schiffer, I'd wind up doing the same thing.
Well, I'm doing it again.
This time it's my fiancee.
And the offensive things are things more noticeable by most people. She's had weight-loss surgery (no flames, please...she pretty much had to) and has taken on that yellowish hue now that her fat absorption is impaired. Her skin is loose just about everywhere, but where I really notice it is her face. To boot, she has prematurely gray hair that peeks through her dye job.
I look at her and feel like I'm looking at an old woman. It's stealing my vavavoom, and it's really starting to worry me! Might anyone have some helpful words for me?
I have a feeling if I'd ever dated Claudia Schiffer, I'd wind up doing the same thing.
Well, I'm doing it again.
This time it's my fiancee.
And the offensive things are things more noticeable by most people. She's had weight-loss surgery (no flames, please...she pretty much had to) and has taken on that yellowish hue now that her fat absorption is impaired. Her skin is loose just about everywhere, but where I really notice it is her face. To boot, she has prematurely gray hair that peeks through her dye job.
I look at her and feel like I'm looking at an old woman. It's stealing my vavavoom, and it's really starting to worry me! Might anyone have some helpful words for me?
