fearnloathing
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So, pretty sure this is my first post. Been a member for quite a while though
Anywhoo...I figured this would be the best place to ask for advice on a situation
My girlfriend, who i love and adore, recently found out about my...well...my preference i suppose. Let me tell you a little bit about her...basically...shes quite small. About 110, 5' 3". Don't get me wrong, she's beautiful and absolutely great. I also would never ask her to gain just to please me as she's had problems in the past with eating disorders.
Well, my problem you see, is that while she tells me she's comfortable with herself, and my being an FA definetley helps her with feeling good even though she has a little paunch, i recently found out from a mutual friend that she actually would like to be back down to the 90-ish mark. (jesus that was quite a sentence)
How should i go about talking to her about this? Because this isn't just a sexuality thing from my point of view. This is a major health concern for her.
I know she won't go about it in a safe way, and being that tiny isn't good either way.
Please, any advice is appreciated. I love her more than anything and think she is the most beautiful girl, even at her current weight. Even though i know she would never purposfully gain, i don't want to see her hurt herself like this.
Anywhoo...I figured this would be the best place to ask for advice on a situation
My girlfriend, who i love and adore, recently found out about my...well...my preference i suppose. Let me tell you a little bit about her...basically...shes quite small. About 110, 5' 3". Don't get me wrong, she's beautiful and absolutely great. I also would never ask her to gain just to please me as she's had problems in the past with eating disorders.
Well, my problem you see, is that while she tells me she's comfortable with herself, and my being an FA definetley helps her with feeling good even though she has a little paunch, i recently found out from a mutual friend that she actually would like to be back down to the 90-ish mark. (jesus that was quite a sentence)
How should i go about talking to her about this? Because this isn't just a sexuality thing from my point of view. This is a major health concern for her.
I know she won't go about it in a safe way, and being that tiny isn't good either way.
Please, any advice is appreciated. I love her more than anything and think she is the most beautiful girl, even at her current weight. Even though i know she would never purposfully gain, i don't want to see her hurt herself like this.
