comngetmeFA
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are there bbws on this thread who don't necessarily LIKE gaining weight? I'm saying this because I think I've put on a few pounds, possibly 5-10, maybe. I don't like weighing my self--I only do it when I go to the doc. But anyway, I've noticed in the mirror that my stomach's a little bigger, and I just feel really really really fat. Not like my usual self.
I guess, what I'm really asking is if there are any bbws on this site who feel comfortable in their skin, for the most part, want to be desired by FAs and non-FAs alike (if that makes sense), but who do NOT want to gain any extra weight?
There is a part of me that wants to be the size 4 or even a size 10. (I'm an 18/20.) But then there is a part of me that likes being overweight, and having an ass.
But I guess my thing is that I want the 'perks' of being a thin chick--cute clothes--bikinis, low hipped jeans, tank tops, short shorts, tiny shoes, easy efforts in getting dates, etc. In a sense, being mainstream, and having a guy say, "she's hot!":smitten: about me. Don't get me wrong, I know there are some fat chicks who do get the hunk guys, and wear anything they want in public...But I've never had the "hunk" guy (looks arent that necessary but it would be nice) and I wouldn't feel comfortable wearing anything I want (short shorts, bikinis, etc.) outside closed doors, I'm not that strong, I guess.
Most people would say if I want to be thin, I can get do it--I'm sure I can. But I'm thinking I'm just too lazy, and don't want to work, really work, at getting thin. Who knows.
I guess, what I'm really asking is if there are any bbws on this site who feel comfortable in their skin, for the most part, want to be desired by FAs and non-FAs alike (if that makes sense), but who do NOT want to gain any extra weight?
There is a part of me that wants to be the size 4 or even a size 10. (I'm an 18/20.) But then there is a part of me that likes being overweight, and having an ass.
But I guess my thing is that I want the 'perks' of being a thin chick--cute clothes--bikinis, low hipped jeans, tank tops, short shorts, tiny shoes, easy efforts in getting dates, etc. In a sense, being mainstream, and having a guy say, "she's hot!":smitten: about me. Don't get me wrong, I know there are some fat chicks who do get the hunk guys, and wear anything they want in public...But I've never had the "hunk" guy (looks arent that necessary but it would be nice) and I wouldn't feel comfortable wearing anything I want (short shorts, bikinis, etc.) outside closed doors, I'm not that strong, I guess.
Most people would say if I want to be thin, I can get do it--I'm sure I can. But I'm thinking I'm just too lazy, and don't want to work, really work, at getting thin. Who knows.
