CFHDIMEBAG36
Well-Known Member
Hey everyone, its been a while since I've been around these parts. What with school, and mid-terms, and moving back home, I never have much time, and probably none of you on here even noticed I was gone! Haha, anyways thats besides the point.
Well I didnt feel like searching through all the articles to see if I couldn't find a topic that was similar, cause its 4 a.m and I fee like being lazy. Anyways, I have been dating someone for about 7 months, and I've known her for almost a whole year. We both care for one another very much. Whats hard is that she lives in Michigan and I live right next door, in Wisconsin. We both see eachother every chance we get.
The last time we were together we wanted to get more intimate. So the night came where we took the step and did the deed so to speak. The problem is that its was pretty difficult. Being that we are both bigger people, our size got in the way. She was laying down on her back and I was on top. Well she had to kinda stretch out pretty far for us to do this. Now my little buddy is by no means small, but it isnt huge either.
It just looked to me that she was uncomfortable and possibly in some pain. I asked her if it hurt being in the position that she was in, she told me no. But I could tell she was just hiding it.
I dont want to cause her that kind of pain every time we do this. So I was wondering if any of you fine people experience the same kind of problem and if so, how do you work it out? Any tips you can give me? Its that she feels sex is a very big key element to a great relationship, and I feel the same way. Any help would be most appreciated.
ANdy
Well I didnt feel like searching through all the articles to see if I couldn't find a topic that was similar, cause its 4 a.m and I fee like being lazy. Anyways, I have been dating someone for about 7 months, and I've known her for almost a whole year. We both care for one another very much. Whats hard is that she lives in Michigan and I live right next door, in Wisconsin. We both see eachother every chance we get.
The last time we were together we wanted to get more intimate. So the night came where we took the step and did the deed so to speak. The problem is that its was pretty difficult. Being that we are both bigger people, our size got in the way. She was laying down on her back and I was on top. Well she had to kinda stretch out pretty far for us to do this. Now my little buddy is by no means small, but it isnt huge either.
It just looked to me that she was uncomfortable and possibly in some pain. I asked her if it hurt being in the position that she was in, she told me no. But I could tell she was just hiding it.
I dont want to cause her that kind of pain every time we do this. So I was wondering if any of you fine people experience the same kind of problem and if so, how do you work it out? Any tips you can give me? Its that she feels sex is a very big key element to a great relationship, and I feel the same way. Any help would be most appreciated.
ANdy
