Hi guys I'm new here I've been lurking for a while, but I figured it was time to say hi and see if anyone has any advice for my current situation. I have been an FA for a long time and it is a fact I am not afraid to admit.
So the problem goes like this I've been dating a big girl for about a month or so now and she is wonderful (smart, funny beautiful....). She is well aware that she is a big girl and she seems or seemed to be ok with that fact. I have told her that I prefer bigger women and she was a bit confused by this. Recently she got on a scale and figured out that she is bigger even than she thought. Now she seems to think that it is impossible for me to really think that she is beautiful. I want to find a way to make her understand me as well as fortify the confidence that she has\had in herself, but without it sounding like I am only dating her because of her size (which I am not). Any help would be greatly appreciated.
Erik
So the problem goes like this I've been dating a big girl for about a month or so now and she is wonderful (smart, funny beautiful....). She is well aware that she is a big girl and she seems or seemed to be ok with that fact. I have told her that I prefer bigger women and she was a bit confused by this. Recently she got on a scale and figured out that she is bigger even than she thought. Now she seems to think that it is impossible for me to really think that she is beautiful. I want to find a way to make her understand me as well as fortify the confidence that she has\had in herself, but without it sounding like I am only dating her because of her size (which I am not). Any help would be greatly appreciated.
Erik
