My sister is 9 years younger than me. So there's a huge age gap. It's funny to see her go through stages I went through as a 20-something and on into a 30-something.
She said the other night, "I'm tired of trying to pretend to be nice to people I don't like". I laughed and told her I was way past that and that she could laugh at the goofy shit I do all she wants but in 10 years she would be saying and doing off the wall kooky shit and when people thinks she's loony she will just shrug and say what the fuck ever lol
So that's where I'm at now. Of course, I'm getting closer to 40 every day lol. But I've found that at 38, I am beyond trying to pretend to be nice to people I don't care for. They just don't concern me. My thing now has been more of accepting my inner weirdness and expressing it in whatever manner I see fit even if people think it's off the wall fucking crazy lol
That may be just MY personal growth for my 30's. I'm sure everyone else's path is different. Have you noticed that you moved from a major life lesson from your 20's to your 30's? Please do tell
She said the other night, "I'm tired of trying to pretend to be nice to people I don't like". I laughed and told her I was way past that and that she could laugh at the goofy shit I do all she wants but in 10 years she would be saying and doing off the wall kooky shit and when people thinks she's loony she will just shrug and say what the fuck ever lol
So that's where I'm at now. Of course, I'm getting closer to 40 every day lol. But I've found that at 38, I am beyond trying to pretend to be nice to people I don't care for. They just don't concern me. My thing now has been more of accepting my inner weirdness and expressing it in whatever manner I see fit even if people think it's off the wall fucking crazy lol
That may be just MY personal growth for my 30's. I'm sure everyone else's path is different. Have you noticed that you moved from a major life lesson from your 20's to your 30's? Please do tell
