So, the reality is that I have an amazing girlfriend. Looks, intelligence, heart, everything. I'm really crazy about her... I thought I might marry her on the night we met.
Our sex life is pretty great, too. She likes being spoiled, she likes food (even in bed sometimes), she's dominant (i'm submissive), and we often have a great time.
My only concern is that she's plus size (5'9", a little over 200), but not really that big, and she's going on a diet because she doesn't feel as good physically as she did when she was thinner. She wants my help, and I'm going to give it to her because I want her to feel good. I like really big girls (300 lbs+), but I've never been with anyone that size. I feel both sexually fulfilled and unfulfilled at the same time. I'd like to be with her, ultimately, and I'm pretty sure I can be pretty satisfied, but I'm not totally sure. When we have a dry spell (sexually) I find myself craving pornography and bigger women. When we have great sex I find myself very fulfilled in that moment. When we have average sex sometimes I want more.
I've talked about this with her and it's very painful. Fights, tears, temporary break-ups. She wants me to love her no matter what size she is, but she understands my attraction. We're currently trying to discuss boundaries and ways to make our sex life be satisfying for both of us.
Any ideas?
Our sex life is pretty great, too. She likes being spoiled, she likes food (even in bed sometimes), she's dominant (i'm submissive), and we often have a great time.
My only concern is that she's plus size (5'9", a little over 200), but not really that big, and she's going on a diet because she doesn't feel as good physically as she did when she was thinner. She wants my help, and I'm going to give it to her because I want her to feel good. I like really big girls (300 lbs+), but I've never been with anyone that size. I feel both sexually fulfilled and unfulfilled at the same time. I'd like to be with her, ultimately, and I'm pretty sure I can be pretty satisfied, but I'm not totally sure. When we have a dry spell (sexually) I find myself craving pornography and bigger women. When we have great sex I find myself very fulfilled in that moment. When we have average sex sometimes I want more.
I've talked about this with her and it's very painful. Fights, tears, temporary break-ups. She wants me to love her no matter what size she is, but she understands my attraction. We're currently trying to discuss boundaries and ways to make our sex life be satisfying for both of us.
Any ideas?
