So what about confidence?

[olwen]

So it's been said by other bbws that just being told to be confident won't fix or cure self any esteem issues we as bbws may have, and I can see how this could be true, but at the same time I don't see how trying to instill confidence can be a bad thing either. So the question is how do we find confidence? If it isn't with platittudes from FAs or even from other women, then how can we help each other build up confidence? Is this even something we should be spending lots of time on? What I mean by that is, should we focus on other things like health, career, family instead? Would just being good at being workers or mothers or artists or anything other than sexual beings be a good way to get confidence? That then makes me wonder how are we even defining confidence? When people say we should be confident do they mean sexual confidence or just overall confidence. I'm starting to think there are different kinds of confidence.....thoughts?

 

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