Xyantha Reborn
- Actually Very Tame!
I'm not sure if this has been done before..but
Most of us starting out knowing we deeply adore the chub before we actually ever have the opportunity to verify it via dating/more intimate stuff. That thought me thinking of all the preconceptions I had BEFORE I started dating a BHM...because we construct a lot of the things we THINK we like/tolerate/etc before we actually get exposed to a dose of reality. Does anyone have any others?
Before:
1) I didn't like when BHM wore shirts that were sloppy and had food on it (sloppy dress bothered me in general)
2) I didn't like sweats and preferred jeans on guys, even BHM
3) I didn't think as fondly of moobs and love handles. It was allll about the belly.
After:
1) My hubby calls his shirt a bib with sleeves and he is sooo messy! Its so cute when he drops something on it in his hurry to get it to his mouth, and that little bit of chub poking out of the bottom isn't sloppiness, its adorable, and im more protective of keeping it out of sight because its MY (baby's) belly than anything else.
2)I realized how CRUEL belts and buckles and buttons can be to the belly, and now sweats represent comfort and belly freedom, whereas jeans are mean!!!
3) I actually love guy's moobs, they are adorable, and the role that forms as it wraps around their back is super squishable. And the love handles are well names indeed. I also discovered the joy of upper thigh chub and 'crotch pudge' as my hubby calls it, which I never really thought about/fantasized about before.
Anyone else have anything that provide a surprise/novelty to them as they transitioned from a 'theoretical' to a 'practical' appreciation of the larger form?
Most of us starting out knowing we deeply adore the chub before we actually ever have the opportunity to verify it via dating/more intimate stuff. That thought me thinking of all the preconceptions I had BEFORE I started dating a BHM...because we construct a lot of the things we THINK we like/tolerate/etc before we actually get exposed to a dose of reality. Does anyone have any others?
Before:
1) I didn't like when BHM wore shirts that were sloppy and had food on it (sloppy dress bothered me in general)
2) I didn't like sweats and preferred jeans on guys, even BHM
3) I didn't think as fondly of moobs and love handles. It was allll about the belly.
After:
1) My hubby calls his shirt a bib with sleeves and he is sooo messy! Its so cute when he drops something on it in his hurry to get it to his mouth, and that little bit of chub poking out of the bottom isn't sloppiness, its adorable, and im more protective of keeping it out of sight because its MY (baby's) belly than anything else.
2)I realized how CRUEL belts and buckles and buttons can be to the belly, and now sweats represent comfort and belly freedom, whereas jeans are mean!!!
3) I actually love guy's moobs, they are adorable, and the role that forms as it wraps around their back is super squishable. And the love handles are well names indeed. I also discovered the joy of upper thigh chub and 'crotch pudge' as my hubby calls it, which I never really thought about/fantasized about before.
Anyone else have anything that provide a surprise/novelty to them as they transitioned from a 'theoretical' to a 'practical' appreciation of the larger form?
