BigWheels
It's OK, I bite back
I guess being relatively new to the boards, I'm not sure how to approach FA's. I am a large (again, not being sure WHAT the limits are for BHM/SSBHM as far as weight goes), 408 lb (or 185 kilogram) man, who is deathly shy (among other things) of all women (well, in social situations)... wish I wasn't but I am.
I have dealt with isolation & am not trying to become a 185lb man. I like being big. OH wait, I guess in kilos I am already...LOL
So how do YOU deal with this problem?
I have seen ALOT of confidence, outright on the boards, but IF this is a problem for you, how do you deal?
I don't drink, do drugs, and so confidence builders like that won't help...LOL
I would love to meet someone who loves me for my brain & not constantly telling me to lose weight. But accepts me at whatever weight I happen to be at. So how do I find Ms. Right?
I have dealt with isolation & am not trying to become a 185lb man. I like being big. OH wait, I guess in kilos I am already...LOL
So how do YOU deal with this problem?
I have seen ALOT of confidence, outright on the boards, but IF this is a problem for you, how do you deal?
I don't drink, do drugs, and so confidence builders like that won't help...LOL
I would love to meet someone who loves me for my brain & not constantly telling me to lose weight. But accepts me at whatever weight I happen to be at. So how do I find Ms. Right?
