This sounds weird and i guess it is maby aimed more at those who have gained weight.
Was there a definitive point where you though "ahh i'm fat"?.
I wasn't really sure where to post this and i swithered between here and the womans board. I guess i swithered because i don't mean this in an erotic way, more in a "Is there a tipping point"?
Well, yesterday i was sitting on my bed and i noticed myself in the mirror. I realised that i was about as big as a woman i saw (briefly) before my now gf. I remember thinking that the girl i was with at the time i considered a bbw, though i dont really consider myself one. Yesterday though, i thought.."yeah, i'm totally chubby"!!!
I'm wondering how we come to these realisations?
Do they change through time and space and experience?
If it has anything to do with comparisons with others? (ie. i don't think i'm a 'bbw' now because my gf is a lot bigger than me...maby)
Is being 'fat identified' a gradual process or does it just happen and you realise.?
ahh many questions... and from experience someone will pop up and say.. "oh we discussed this in 2004 btw" lmao. ....anyway.. please do..
Was there a definitive point where you though "ahh i'm fat"?.
I wasn't really sure where to post this and i swithered between here and the womans board. I guess i swithered because i don't mean this in an erotic way, more in a "Is there a tipping point"?
Well, yesterday i was sitting on my bed and i noticed myself in the mirror. I realised that i was about as big as a woman i saw (briefly) before my now gf. I remember thinking that the girl i was with at the time i considered a bbw, though i dont really consider myself one. Yesterday though, i thought.."yeah, i'm totally chubby"!!!
I'm wondering how we come to these realisations?
Do they change through time and space and experience?
If it has anything to do with comparisons with others? (ie. i don't think i'm a 'bbw' now because my gf is a lot bigger than me...maby)
Is being 'fat identified' a gradual process or does it just happen and you realise.?
ahh many questions... and from experience someone will pop up and say.. "oh we discussed this in 2004 btw" lmao. ....anyway.. please do..
