superodalisque
Well-Known Member
i was talking to a friend of mine the other night who is an FA. he said if he hadn't found all of the information online he would have just gone about his life just thinking that he was a guy who liked fat girls--no big deal. i'm sure it has been eye opening for him in a way but i also think there have been drawbacks for him. he finds himself questioning every reaction he has to a woman. if he happens to feel an attraction to a girl a hair below BBW status he feels a bit guilty and worries about the reactions his friends who are FAs and BBWs will have.
can it be a problem to be labled or label yourself an FA? is there a trap in the designation? can the term emphasize the feeling that a guy is somehow abnormal? would you feel more comfortable just being thought of a a guy who thinks thinks fat girls are cute and sexy? or do find extra spice in the idea of getting off on the quirkiness and maybe the taboo factor of likeing something that western society says your not supposed to?
can it be a problem to be labled or label yourself an FA? is there a trap in the designation? can the term emphasize the feeling that a guy is somehow abnormal? would you feel more comfortable just being thought of a a guy who thinks thinks fat girls are cute and sexy? or do find extra spice in the idea of getting off on the quirkiness and maybe the taboo factor of likeing something that western society says your not supposed to?
