newlylarge
Well-Known Member
Preliminary Note: I am sorry this topic is written with reference to FFAs encouraging gaining. I had originally drafted it for the BHM/FFA board, but then I read the Gaining: For those looking to get fatter sticky thread on that board, and decided this topic seems better suited for the Weight Board. I was lazy and decided not to re-write it to be gender neutral, but certainly, I encourage contributions from anyone with experience relating to this topic regardless of gender.
As a relative newbie here, I hesitated to create a new thread unless I could come up with a topic that did not appear to have been previously addressed. I think I have come up with one. I hope you all agree and find it worthwhile.
Of course, there have been threads begun by FFAs discussing how to best show a guy that they appreciate his size or even how to show a guy who is not yet large, but has been gaining a bit, that they appreciate his added girth and would even like to see him keep gaining. Similarly, there have been many discussions of how to not only show a guy such feelings, but how to actually come out and tell him about such preferences. That is not, of course, the intended subject of this thread.
My question is this, once an FFA has made her appreciation for her partners size clearly known and even indicated a preference for further gaining, perhaps also with her assistance, what methods have people used or experienced which have been effective in encouraging further weight-gain?
Of course, I do not mean tricks or anything dishonest and unethical. I mean, in the context of both parties agreeing upon further weight-gain, does anyone have experience with little methods (even just words) which had the effect of, sort of, helping along in the shared goal further weight-gain?
This is, of course, open to all. If you were the FFA in the relationship, was there anything that you did or said (beyond the obvious) to encourage weight-gain? Likewise, if you were the one gaining, was there anything that the FFA you were with did or said that encouraged you further?
I know this question may be a bit vague, so I will provide some examples of what I mean, and get the thread started, with a couple of postings describing things that my girlfriend did which had the effect of encouraging me to eat and gain more (or at least faster) than I might have otherwise.
As a relative newbie here, I hesitated to create a new thread unless I could come up with a topic that did not appear to have been previously addressed. I think I have come up with one. I hope you all agree and find it worthwhile.
Of course, there have been threads begun by FFAs discussing how to best show a guy that they appreciate his size or even how to show a guy who is not yet large, but has been gaining a bit, that they appreciate his added girth and would even like to see him keep gaining. Similarly, there have been many discussions of how to not only show a guy such feelings, but how to actually come out and tell him about such preferences. That is not, of course, the intended subject of this thread.
My question is this, once an FFA has made her appreciation for her partners size clearly known and even indicated a preference for further gaining, perhaps also with her assistance, what methods have people used or experienced which have been effective in encouraging further weight-gain?
Of course, I do not mean tricks or anything dishonest and unethical. I mean, in the context of both parties agreeing upon further weight-gain, does anyone have experience with little methods (even just words) which had the effect of, sort of, helping along in the shared goal further weight-gain?
This is, of course, open to all. If you were the FFA in the relationship, was there anything that you did or said (beyond the obvious) to encourage weight-gain? Likewise, if you were the one gaining, was there anything that the FFA you were with did or said that encouraged you further?
I know this question may be a bit vague, so I will provide some examples of what I mean, and get the thread started, with a couple of postings describing things that my girlfriend did which had the effect of encouraging me to eat and gain more (or at least faster) than I might have otherwise.
