Ahhh agree! Feabie can be decent.I've met up with a few women from feabie in the last 5 years. It's not all guys. Two of those lasted over a year despite being long distance (one ended because of the border closure with Canada due to covid). Feabie is annoying but it has some prospects if you get to know people.
I met my best (fat) sex partner through feabie and spend some of my best times with him, traveling between UK and Poland. But that was back in the 2015ish, so it wasn’t full of crazy people yet
Dims is a much more “normal” community, I feel like we are a big family here. I connected with a lot of people via this place and I deeply respect most of our bhm/ffa members and honestly, it just feels like home.
Feabie is tiring, full of assholes and just annoying most of the time.
Case and point below:
Me, Laura aka elebee from dims, my all time love and friend for almost 10 years now. Oh and my very very very lucky fiancé