Okay fellas..
While reading through the posts, this line by Wanderer caught my attention
"I'm sorry for blowing up like that, but when your weekends consist mostly of babysitting ". This line hits quite hits quite close to home. So I'd like to get a conversation going on about your situations, expierience etc, and opinion.. See where you guys are @, and share ideas..
I've gotten to a point where I'm just going to give up on the woman thing. I mean I just completely suck at it.
It's close to 10yrs since I've been in any sort of serious relationship, and in the last 6 years I can count "dates" on one hand. When I look at all my friends, they hooked up with someone through friends, or at work. That well has been dry for ages. In essence I'm just fending for myself. They're also totally useless for help in the matter, their ideas to help are beyond useless.
I reasoned that it's just simple odds. If the odds are 1 in 20 then you just have to meet 20 people. Problem is walking up to random women and saying "Hi" doesn't seem to work at all aside from getting a smile, and watching them scurry away. Clubs & Bars have proven useless, especially when you're going with married couples (no single friends left)..
I even switched jobs last year in hopes of making some sort of change, but it just bit me in the ass.. and now I'm stuck in "officespace" where the only women who show an interest are married.. Tried the online dating thing.. regular dating sites.. I'm ignored.. BHM (ha! yeah..) BBW sites, ignored by the women.. yet my inbox seems to attract plenty of men.. (I'm male and hetero.. There's a slight problem there..).
I don't know.. maybe my Social standing/character/personality/hobbies is incompatible with women, maybe I really don't have anything to offer?
What would I have to fix with me? And how would I go about meeting new people?
While reading through the posts, this line by Wanderer caught my attention
"I'm sorry for blowing up like that, but when your weekends consist mostly of babysitting ". This line hits quite hits quite close to home. So I'd like to get a conversation going on about your situations, expierience etc, and opinion.. See where you guys are @, and share ideas..
I've gotten to a point where I'm just going to give up on the woman thing. I mean I just completely suck at it.
It's close to 10yrs since I've been in any sort of serious relationship, and in the last 6 years I can count "dates" on one hand. When I look at all my friends, they hooked up with someone through friends, or at work. That well has been dry for ages. In essence I'm just fending for myself. They're also totally useless for help in the matter, their ideas to help are beyond useless.
I reasoned that it's just simple odds. If the odds are 1 in 20 then you just have to meet 20 people. Problem is walking up to random women and saying "Hi" doesn't seem to work at all aside from getting a smile, and watching them scurry away. Clubs & Bars have proven useless, especially when you're going with married couples (no single friends left)..
I even switched jobs last year in hopes of making some sort of change, but it just bit me in the ass.. and now I'm stuck in "officespace" where the only women who show an interest are married.. Tried the online dating thing.. regular dating sites.. I'm ignored.. BHM (ha! yeah..) BBW sites, ignored by the women.. yet my inbox seems to attract plenty of men.. (I'm male and hetero.. There's a slight problem there..).
I don't know.. maybe my Social standing/character/personality/hobbies is incompatible with women, maybe I really don't have anything to offer?
What would I have to fix with me? And how would I go about meeting new people?
