Miss_Scandinavia
Well-Known Member
Can you tell a new partner about your fat-fetish/fantasy?!
Im just curious, and would like to hear other peoples opinion about this taboo subject:
(I dont know if there already exists a thread about this)?
Ive never told a boyfriend about my fetish (the one about fat, hehe), and the fact is, that I never had been together with a big guy.
I was in a relationship for about 3 years with a skinny/normal guy (and I have always loved to cook), and after 1½ year he had gain about 10 kg (not much, but better than nothing). I really enjoy seeing his clothes become tighter, but he didnt like the extra weight and didnt felt good about himself, and started dieting and exercising. I told him many times how sexy he looked, but in someway he maybe thought I just saying that to be nice.
*stamps my feet, and he wasnt fat at all, just a little chubby*
It was a really hard time for me, because I hated he was dieting and losing weight. Hated what I couldnt tell him about my fantasy, and hated myself because I was a bad person who didnt supported and encouraged his diet (but I didnt show him that). The most important was how he felt about himself. - Of course I loved him the same way, but it was such a turn off!
Maybe Im crazy, but the only thing I can think about then Im in sexy-moods is fat (fat has to be a part of my fantasy), and sometimes I hate that I was born with this fetish. Still Im not extreme, I really like the lazy, out of shape, to much eating-look, but not extremely fat.
The next problem/challenge: I like the feeding/dominate/sweet-teasing part of gaining, and if/then I meet a new guy, and Id have the courage to tell him, that I would love to see him gain (and he accept this, but really dont share this fantasy with me), he would think that Im totally gal then Im stating teasing him (but still tell him how sexy his growing body is). Id love to weight him, measure him, be his personal doctor, use his fat rolls/and feed him in bed, see how his jiggling, etc.. But if he isnt in to this, it would be a kind of clumsy.
Maybe I just should become a nun, and move to a convent (a fat-nun-convent) *lol*
Question:
Have you ever told a boy/girl-friend about your fantasy? And do you have a success history to share?
Im just curious, and would like to hear other peoples opinion about this taboo subject:
(I dont know if there already exists a thread about this)?
Ive never told a boyfriend about my fetish (the one about fat, hehe), and the fact is, that I never had been together with a big guy.
I was in a relationship for about 3 years with a skinny/normal guy (and I have always loved to cook), and after 1½ year he had gain about 10 kg (not much, but better than nothing). I really enjoy seeing his clothes become tighter, but he didnt like the extra weight and didnt felt good about himself, and started dieting and exercising. I told him many times how sexy he looked, but in someway he maybe thought I just saying that to be nice.
*stamps my feet, and he wasnt fat at all, just a little chubby*
It was a really hard time for me, because I hated he was dieting and losing weight. Hated what I couldnt tell him about my fantasy, and hated myself because I was a bad person who didnt supported and encouraged his diet (but I didnt show him that). The most important was how he felt about himself. - Of course I loved him the same way, but it was such a turn off!
Maybe Im crazy, but the only thing I can think about then Im in sexy-moods is fat (fat has to be a part of my fantasy), and sometimes I hate that I was born with this fetish. Still Im not extreme, I really like the lazy, out of shape, to much eating-look, but not extremely fat.
The next problem/challenge: I like the feeding/dominate/sweet-teasing part of gaining, and if/then I meet a new guy, and Id have the courage to tell him, that I would love to see him gain (and he accept this, but really dont share this fantasy with me), he would think that Im totally gal then Im stating teasing him (but still tell him how sexy his growing body is). Id love to weight him, measure him, be his personal doctor, use his fat rolls/and feed him in bed, see how his jiggling, etc.. But if he isnt in to this, it would be a kind of clumsy.
Maybe I just should become a nun, and move to a convent (a fat-nun-convent) *lol*
Question:
Have you ever told a boy/girl-friend about your fantasy? And do you have a success history to share?
