The interviews up on SexIs right now. Heres a snip:
"What was food like growing up? Did they use food as punishment or reward? Was dinnertime special family time? Did your parents make you clean your plate?
Now thats something Ive never thought about it in conjunction with my fetish! Food was never used as reward/punishment, and I dont remember being told to clean my plate, but I dont have many pleasant memories of food in childhood. Family dinner was an extremely boring time for me when I had to sit still for what felt like 1,000 hours and eat horrible foodmushy veggies, bland entrees and mainly packaged fooduntil the last couple years, when I taught myself how to cook out.
Ironically, my early experiences with badly prepared food might make me *less* receptive to food than a lot of feederists. A lot of the homemade feederism erotica I read has long descriptions of each dish and I usually skip over those. Wheres the bit where hes stuffed and hard, dammit? Most of the stories I write for myself start after the gorging, instead of having that as the lead-up to the climax."
Answering The Beautiful Kinds questions about my fetish is probably one of the most revealing things Ive ever done on the Internet. TBK showed a remarkable empathy for my core sexuality in a way that Ive yet to see in any other article written about feederism. She seemed to be able to understand what made it sensual instead of merely odd, asking how I relate my body to its ideals and about my favorite fantasies. As demonstrated in the above quote, she even got me to consider it in ways I hadnt before!
Ive spoken about feederism at the first DC KinkForAll, and answered some questions about it on KinkOnTap, but some of this stuff is something Ive never told anyone. Not my partners, not in my blog posts, and not even the people at happy hour. So I was surprised to see this edited version of our interview held very little that would make me blush. But theres still a part two coming up, so stay tuned!
"What was food like growing up? Did they use food as punishment or reward? Was dinnertime special family time? Did your parents make you clean your plate?
Now thats something Ive never thought about it in conjunction with my fetish! Food was never used as reward/punishment, and I dont remember being told to clean my plate, but I dont have many pleasant memories of food in childhood. Family dinner was an extremely boring time for me when I had to sit still for what felt like 1,000 hours and eat horrible foodmushy veggies, bland entrees and mainly packaged fooduntil the last couple years, when I taught myself how to cook out.
Ironically, my early experiences with badly prepared food might make me *less* receptive to food than a lot of feederists. A lot of the homemade feederism erotica I read has long descriptions of each dish and I usually skip over those. Wheres the bit where hes stuffed and hard, dammit? Most of the stories I write for myself start after the gorging, instead of having that as the lead-up to the climax."
Answering The Beautiful Kinds questions about my fetish is probably one of the most revealing things Ive ever done on the Internet. TBK showed a remarkable empathy for my core sexuality in a way that Ive yet to see in any other article written about feederism. She seemed to be able to understand what made it sensual instead of merely odd, asking how I relate my body to its ideals and about my favorite fantasies. As demonstrated in the above quote, she even got me to consider it in ways I hadnt before!
Ive spoken about feederism at the first DC KinkForAll, and answered some questions about it on KinkOnTap, but some of this stuff is something Ive never told anyone. Not my partners, not in my blog posts, and not even the people at happy hour. So I was surprised to see this edited version of our interview held very little that would make me blush. But theres still a part two coming up, so stay tuned!
