Hello, I have been married for two years now, to my beautiful petite wife. There have been a handful of times where she will gain a few pounds, start to soften up, and then bam, she will diet and lose the little bit of weight in no time. I think she is sexy no matter what, but would love an extra 10-20lbs on her. I have told her a ton of times when she puts on a few how amazing she looks, and how I love the way her body feels, but she doesn't seem to believe me. Does anyone have any advice on how I can help her feel beautiful when she puts on a few? Before I get a bunch of nasty comments and people telling me I should just let her be, let me just say I am ok with that, and have done it in the past. The thing is, she loves to eat, our sex is better, and she seems happier when she is a few pounds heavier. But then out if nowhere she will feel fat and diet down. Never seeming as happy when she's skinny. I think a big part of it is that she thinks I prefer her tiny, and while I have told her a ton of times that she looks her best when her weight is up, she just does not seem to believe me. Any advice will be appreciated. Obviously for selfish reasons I would love her fatter, but I also think she'll be happier not worrying about what she eats and knowing her husband finds her sexier than ever.