So I was pushed by an angry FFA friend from another site to make accounts on normal dating sites. I did because I didn't want her to kick my ass. Being the compulsive data gathering INTP that I am I started reviewing how I could identify possible FFAs on OK stupid errr Cupid. Here is what I found and it kind of works:
There are two questions that directly show FA prefs. The first is this:
Can overweight people still be sexy?
Always
Yes
No
The second is:
If one of your potential matches were overweight, would that be a dealbreaker?
Yes, even if they were slightly overweight.
Yes, but only if they were obese.
No.
No, in fact I prefer overweight people.
If you pay for the ok cupid plan you can search for people by their answers. So if you look for "No, in fact I prefer overweight people." and "always" you have a shot at finding FFAs. For the FFAs make sure you answer these questions! There are several other fat positive questions as well, but these are the real FFA indicators. Although still most of the people you find will still be looking for the barely fat fatties who don't know what kingsize direct or casual male are. I did find an FFA this way, messaged her and have my fingers crossed. She seems awesome too. Still not close to me, but that's to be expected when you live in Western NY. Yes I tried searching for keywords related as well. That got me nowhere. This search actually worked. I actually found a closer FFA one but she's only 18 and still in high school so does not really count. Also she's Canadian and you know how those people are.
There are two questions that directly show FA prefs. The first is this:
Can overweight people still be sexy?
Always
Yes
No
The second is:
If one of your potential matches were overweight, would that be a dealbreaker?
Yes, even if they were slightly overweight.
Yes, but only if they were obese.
No.
No, in fact I prefer overweight people.
If you pay for the ok cupid plan you can search for people by their answers. So if you look for "No, in fact I prefer overweight people." and "always" you have a shot at finding FFAs. For the FFAs make sure you answer these questions! There are several other fat positive questions as well, but these are the real FFA indicators. Although still most of the people you find will still be looking for the barely fat fatties who don't know what kingsize direct or casual male are. I did find an FFA this way, messaged her and have my fingers crossed. She seems awesome too. Still not close to me, but that's to be expected when you live in Western NY. Yes I tried searching for keywords related as well. That got me nowhere. This search actually worked. I actually found a closer FFA one but she's only 18 and still in high school so does not really count. Also she's Canadian and you know how those people are.
