PaulfromtheUK
Member
Hi folks.
How do you go about telling a loved one you want gain a bit of weight?
Let me explain....up untill early 2002 I've always been slim although mid to large build. (I stand 6'2'' and was 200lbs).
In 2002 due to a change in personall circumstances I gained about 35lbs. This continued to autumn 2004 where I ended up at 260lbs. My partner never said anything negative about my weight although she seemed to like the fact that since last autumn I slimmed down to 215lbs. This loss was mainly due to a well earned holiday we'd had planned for months and it involved a certain degree of fitness.
I loved being heavier. I mean, it felt 'right' to be large. I have always had a facination of bbw/bhm and gaining weight was a dream come true.
Now I want to regain what I lost and maybe a little more but I don't want to do it in secret or with guilt but I'm unsure of how my partner will react to an all out gaining lifestyle for me.
Has anyone here been on either end of such a conversation? How did it affect things?
Regards
Paul
PS enclosed should be an old heavier pic and a recent lighter one/comparison.
View attachment 260and215lbs.JPG
How do you go about telling a loved one you want gain a bit of weight?
Let me explain....up untill early 2002 I've always been slim although mid to large build. (I stand 6'2'' and was 200lbs).
In 2002 due to a change in personall circumstances I gained about 35lbs. This continued to autumn 2004 where I ended up at 260lbs. My partner never said anything negative about my weight although she seemed to like the fact that since last autumn I slimmed down to 215lbs. This loss was mainly due to a well earned holiday we'd had planned for months and it involved a certain degree of fitness.
I loved being heavier. I mean, it felt 'right' to be large. I have always had a facination of bbw/bhm and gaining weight was a dream come true.
Now I want to regain what I lost and maybe a little more but I don't want to do it in secret or with guilt but I'm unsure of how my partner will react to an all out gaining lifestyle for me.
Has anyone here been on either end of such a conversation? How did it affect things?
Regards
Paul
PS enclosed should be an old heavier pic and a recent lighter one/comparison.
View attachment 260and215lbs.JPG
