That Guy You Met Once
Well-Known Member
As a (chubby) BHM and a semi-closeted FA, my response could fill a few pages, but I'll try to keep it down.
THE BEST:
My girlfriend is a BBW and an FFA. Enough said.
Observing my own gains. I'm still very shy about it, but I've found it improves intimacy, and makes me feel much more happy with myself.
Enjoying food more. It's such a warm, satiated feeling.
Dimensions. The only drawback to this site is that I'll can't meet most of you guys IRL.
THE WORST:
The reactions. I usually get the same nervous "OH THERE'S NOTHING WRONG WITH THAT" usually reserved for hearing someone you know is gay. But that's tolerable.
But there are exceptions. One of my friend's brothers, upon overhearing, totally lost his shit. He laughed in my face and made jokes about how I should find a fat girl and (emotionally and sexually) take advantage of her, due to their "submissiveness."
This is just a more direct version of what I've heard people hint at upon seeing my girlfriend, or hearing about my preference. (My mother told me flat out: "I hoped you have better taste than that." on seeing my future girlfriend for the first time a few years back.)
It makes me feel like some bizarre internet fetishist, and I would have told her out if I wasn't 15 and incredibly shy at the time.
The urge to deny myself. I'm was raised eating one or two small meals a day, with a small-medium amount of snacks. Having any more than that makes me feel guilty, even if it is irrational.
TV. You know exactly what I mean.
Stereotypes (and seeing some BBWs and BHMs act like them.) You should get the gist, but the full story is a mouthful. I'm in a hurry, so I'll explain it later.
THE BEST:
My girlfriend is a BBW and an FFA. Enough said.
Observing my own gains. I'm still very shy about it, but I've found it improves intimacy, and makes me feel much more happy with myself.
Enjoying food more. It's such a warm, satiated feeling.
Dimensions. The only drawback to this site is that I'll can't meet most of you guys IRL.
THE WORST:
The reactions. I usually get the same nervous "OH THERE'S NOTHING WRONG WITH THAT" usually reserved for hearing someone you know is gay. But that's tolerable.
But there are exceptions. One of my friend's brothers, upon overhearing, totally lost his shit. He laughed in my face and made jokes about how I should find a fat girl and (emotionally and sexually) take advantage of her, due to their "submissiveness."
This is just a more direct version of what I've heard people hint at upon seeing my girlfriend, or hearing about my preference. (My mother told me flat out: "I hoped you have better taste than that." on seeing my future girlfriend for the first time a few years back.)
It makes me feel like some bizarre internet fetishist, and I would have told her out if I wasn't 15 and incredibly shy at the time.
The urge to deny myself. I'm was raised eating one or two small meals a day, with a small-medium amount of snacks. Having any more than that makes me feel guilty, even if it is irrational.
TV. You know exactly what I mean.
Stereotypes (and seeing some BBWs and BHMs act like them.) You should get the gist, but the full story is a mouthful. I'm in a hurry, so I'll explain it later.
