I got into a relationship with a slim 5’4” woman four years ago. She gradually has put on 40 lbs and is slightly obese and I love it.
She wants to lose the weight, she’s been saying that since she started gaining shortly after she met but has kept gaining. I support here decision.
I’m in the upper BMI for my height at 170lbs and 5’10”. She would feel my belly under my shirt or sometimes she feels my love handles from one side and will move her hand across my belly and feel my opposite love handle from my behind.
She has been cooking for me for the last few weeks and she told me to eat more which turns me and she turns me on.
Honestly I have a high metabolism and I’ve been in maintenance for most of my life. I find it hard to increase calories and stay consistent with it. We’ve been together for awhile and the relationship has been stable. I feel like there’s a part of her that wants me to catch up with her. She’s definitely a foodie and there’s a part of me that didn’t want to catch up to her because if things didn’t work out then I don’t want to have to lose a bunch of weight and try to find domine else.
That being said my plan is to have a goal of 180lbs and see how I feel from there. I’m looking for members to share similar stories were you both slim when you met and one person in the relationship put on weight and tried to encourage the other person?
She wants to lose the weight, she’s been saying that since she started gaining shortly after she met but has kept gaining. I support here decision.
I’m in the upper BMI for my height at 170lbs and 5’10”. She would feel my belly under my shirt or sometimes she feels my love handles from one side and will move her hand across my belly and feel my opposite love handle from my behind.
She has been cooking for me for the last few weeks and she told me to eat more which turns me and she turns me on.
Honestly I have a high metabolism and I’ve been in maintenance for most of my life. I find it hard to increase calories and stay consistent with it. We’ve been together for awhile and the relationship has been stable. I feel like there’s a part of her that wants me to catch up with her. She’s definitely a foodie and there’s a part of me that didn’t want to catch up to her because if things didn’t work out then I don’t want to have to lose a bunch of weight and try to find domine else.
That being said my plan is to have a goal of 180lbs and see how I feel from there. I’m looking for members to share similar stories were you both slim when you met and one person in the relationship put on weight and tried to encourage the other person?
