In response to picklemans thread Where can you find FFAs, I thought Id do a little survey, just to see if there are specific places FFAs can indeed be found and to compare our dating patterns and habits.
So ladies, please participate, whether youre single or taken.
*You dont have to answer every question if you dont want to, simply leave out any youre not answering.
*If it suits you to re-word a question, feel free.
QUESTIONS
*Your occupation/workplace
*Have you ever been attracted to a workmate or client in this job?
*Have you ever been attracted to a workmate or client in a previous job? If so, what was the job?
*Favourite type of social places
*Favourite types of places to shop.
*Your main interests.
*Ive hit on/picked up guys at/in
*Ive been hit on/picked up by guys at/in
*Ive met most of my boyfriends through/by
*If you have ever dated anyone you met online, describe your experience.
*My preferred size/shape of guy is
*Have you ever dated a man/men of your preferred size? If so, how did you meet him/them?
*Have you ever asked a guy out on a date? If yes, did he accept?
*Have you ever made the first move on a guy you were attracted to?
*Is there an activity/interest that it is imperative to you that your partner shares with you?
*Have your boyfriends had any activity/interest in common with each other?
*Are you out as an FFA? Do your friends/family know your preferred type?
*If you arent out, would that prevent you flirting with a BHM if your friends were present?
*Whats your ideal mode of dress for a man?
*Describe your own mode of dress.
*Describe your body type.
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Pattycake
Your occupation/workplace
Health Care Helpline/call centre
Have you ever been attracted to a workmate or client in this job? If yes, describe them.
Yes (workmate). He turned out to be gay though. Were great friends now. Hes quite chubby with lovely lovehandles.
Have you ever been attracted to a workmate or client in a previous job? If so, what was the job?
Working in a gallery. There were lots of hot BHM tourists that visited. Working in a record shop I had a gorgeous BHM colleague. There was another girl who liked him too and she got in first!
Favourite type of social places
Gigs (venues ranging from arenas to small pubs), pubs, rock clubs, bars, galleries, museums.
Favourite types of places to shop.
Record shops, bookshops, markets. Places like Camden in London.
Your main interests.
Art, music, seeing live bands, reading,
Ive hit on/picked up guys at/in
N/A
Ive been hit on/picked up by guys at/in
Pubs, rock clubs, bars, in a record shop (while I was working), in a bookshop (while I was working), on a bus(!)
Ive met the majority of my boyfriends through/by
Meeting my friends friends at social gatherings.
If you have ever dated anyone you met online, describe your experience.
Once. A few casual dates. Physical attraction and friendship but nothing deeper than that. Nice experience while it lasted.
My preferred size/shape of guy is ..
Hes got to have some kind of belly.
Have you ever dated a man/men of your preferred size? If so, how did you meet him/them?
Yes. Online. (details above!)
Have you ever asked a guy out on a date? If yes, did he accept?
No. Not a first date anyway. Im all for it though.
Have you ever made the first move on a guy you were attracted to?
Yes.
Is there an activity/interest that it is imperative to you that your partner shares with you?
Music, books, art.
Have your boyfriends had any activity/interest in common with each other?
Theres usually an interest in history!
Are you out as an FFA? Do your friends/family know your preferred type?
Most do.
If you arent out, would that prevent you approaching a BHM or reciprocating his flirting if your friends were present?
With the ones that dont know, I dont think it would prevent me.
Whats your ideal mode of dress for a man?
Skater, eclectic, individual.
Describe your own mode of dress.
Quirky.
Describe your body type.
Inbetweeny!
So ladies, please participate, whether youre single or taken.
*You dont have to answer every question if you dont want to, simply leave out any youre not answering.
*If it suits you to re-word a question, feel free.
QUESTIONS
*Your occupation/workplace
*Have you ever been attracted to a workmate or client in this job?
*Have you ever been attracted to a workmate or client in a previous job? If so, what was the job?
*Favourite type of social places
*Favourite types of places to shop.
*Your main interests.
*Ive hit on/picked up guys at/in
*Ive been hit on/picked up by guys at/in
*Ive met most of my boyfriends through/by
*If you have ever dated anyone you met online, describe your experience.
*My preferred size/shape of guy is
*Have you ever dated a man/men of your preferred size? If so, how did you meet him/them?
*Have you ever asked a guy out on a date? If yes, did he accept?
*Have you ever made the first move on a guy you were attracted to?
*Is there an activity/interest that it is imperative to you that your partner shares with you?
*Have your boyfriends had any activity/interest in common with each other?
*Are you out as an FFA? Do your friends/family know your preferred type?
*If you arent out, would that prevent you flirting with a BHM if your friends were present?
*Whats your ideal mode of dress for a man?
*Describe your own mode of dress.
*Describe your body type.
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Pattycake
Your occupation/workplace
Health Care Helpline/call centre
Have you ever been attracted to a workmate or client in this job? If yes, describe them.
Yes (workmate). He turned out to be gay though. Were great friends now. Hes quite chubby with lovely lovehandles.
Have you ever been attracted to a workmate or client in a previous job? If so, what was the job?
Working in a gallery. There were lots of hot BHM tourists that visited. Working in a record shop I had a gorgeous BHM colleague. There was another girl who liked him too and she got in first!
Favourite type of social places
Gigs (venues ranging from arenas to small pubs), pubs, rock clubs, bars, galleries, museums.
Favourite types of places to shop.
Record shops, bookshops, markets. Places like Camden in London.
Your main interests.
Art, music, seeing live bands, reading,
Ive hit on/picked up guys at/in
N/A
Ive been hit on/picked up by guys at/in
Pubs, rock clubs, bars, in a record shop (while I was working), in a bookshop (while I was working), on a bus(!)
Ive met the majority of my boyfriends through/by
Meeting my friends friends at social gatherings.
If you have ever dated anyone you met online, describe your experience.
Once. A few casual dates. Physical attraction and friendship but nothing deeper than that. Nice experience while it lasted.
My preferred size/shape of guy is ..
Hes got to have some kind of belly.
Have you ever dated a man/men of your preferred size? If so, how did you meet him/them?
Yes. Online. (details above!)
Have you ever asked a guy out on a date? If yes, did he accept?
No. Not a first date anyway. Im all for it though.
Have you ever made the first move on a guy you were attracted to?
Yes.
Is there an activity/interest that it is imperative to you that your partner shares with you?
Music, books, art.
Have your boyfriends had any activity/interest in common with each other?
Theres usually an interest in history!
Are you out as an FFA? Do your friends/family know your preferred type?
Most do.
If you arent out, would that prevent you approaching a BHM or reciprocating his flirting if your friends were present?
With the ones that dont know, I dont think it would prevent me.
Whats your ideal mode of dress for a man?
Skater, eclectic, individual.
Describe your own mode of dress.
Quirky.
Describe your body type.
Inbetweeny!
