So, I went to meet the friends and parents of my guy friend this past weekend. I was nervous about it and worried about being judged on so many levels....mostly my weight. When I initially expressed this concern to my friend, he said not to worry about it, that his mom wanted him to marry a big girl anyway....odd statement, right? Anyway, during my trip, I met three other girls and a bunch of guy friends. To my amazement, all the girls were big!! I never saw him as being an FA or even just a guy that was into big girls and for whatever reason, it really threw me for a loop.