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First time posting a topic. This has probably been discussed many times already. Still getting acclimated to site. But wanted to see what others thought. For men and women, what type of body do you find attractive? Is it a deal breaker with you or just a preference? Do you have a size preference?

For those that like BBW or SSBBW, which do you prefer. Do you prefer a certain type of shape (Apple, pear, hourglass,etc). Does it even matter. Is there a size too large. For those that like men, do you have a preference in his size. Do you prefer him in shape and fit, large or does it matter. If you could create a mate from scratch, what would that ideal person look like?
 

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Welcome to the forum, always nice to see new people getting involved!

I'm afraid I like men, women and talking too much, so you're gonna get a bit of an essay in reply. =p

When it comes to women, I'm good with basically any body type, they all have their beauty and appeal. I like skinny girls, muscular girls and fat girls and everything in between. I would say that I have a preference for pear shaped, with wide hips and smaller breasts, but I also like the sort of 'bit of everything' body type some BBW have. My preference for girls is pretty much "yes", hah.

As for guys, I am strictly into BHM/SSBHM. Not interested in skinny/average/muscular/slightly chubby guys at all. Even then, I'm really kind of picky; I'm only into guys that are the soft, squishy all over type of fat rather than the firmer type of fat. Preferably with a bigger belly/hips, but fat all over. I don't have a size limit, but I'm not really into immobile people. I've met people that are between 300 and 700 lbs that meet these requirements nicely but like I said, not everybody that size does.
 

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I personally prefer the “bigger is better“ idea. Love any size and shape of a huge woman, but if you pinned me down, I would prefer a pear shape with large hips. That’s not to say I don’t like other shapes. I do. I appreciate every size and shape. So I guess that’s to say while I do prefer a certain shape. It’s not a must have. I just like everything big if that’s possible.
 

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To be truly honest, even though I am a self-described FA, I am attracted to women regardless of weight. Should my girlfriend ever lose weight, she would remain beautiful in my eyes.

My preference however is for people who are somewhat obese (like 170-240 lbs for an average height lady), preferably with a pear shape.
 

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What if you like pears, but a woman has a classic apple shape. Do you still find her attractive? I personally like a variety of shapes, but my preference is pear shaped. I do like other shapes though.
 

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What if you like pears, but a woman has a classic apple shape. Do you still find her attractive? I personally like a variety of shapes, but my preference is pear shaped. I do like other shapes though.
As I stated before, I love big arms. Also I like pear shaped SSBBWs but I'm not closed for apple shaped SSBBWs. Years ago, I fell in love with an apple shaped SSBBW from Mississippi. Unfortunately she passed away in 2013. I still miss that sweet angel lot!

 

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Another body part that makes me attracted to SSBBWs are their feet. It's a shame some people still see attraction to feet as a taboo. But I'm not! To the contrary, I see the beauty of SSBBW feet. Nor a thousand words can describe how beautiful I see them, so I made this drawing to share with you!

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I've always thought that fat men and women are beautiful. As I'm gay, I'm attracted to fat men. I'm fussy about the words used. I like fat men. Merely big doesn't cut the mustard. I prefer men with big, fat ball bellies, although fat elsewhere is much appreciated. Thick limbs, a round face, a double chin and moobs all add to the attraction. But the number one draw card for me is a big, fat ball belly. Of course, they have to be nice people and interesting to talk to for me to want to date them. As I'm gay of course, the attractive features that I've described are the features that I try to cultivate in myself. First I realized that I thought that fat men were beautiful, and then I decided that I wanted to be one of the beautiful people, too.
 

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I think all bodies are beautiful in their own ways. I find the bodies of women especially beautiful. I have always liked bigger guys as well, a thick muscular body with some extra padding. But I am not particular. I am much more interested in someone's heart and mind.
 

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I prefer bodies that are in proportion.

I’m not an FA but, if I were, there are certain body shapes I’d likely never find to be attractive and be hesitant at best to date someone who has one.

I won’t mention names because I don’t want to be mean but I have seen other fat women who have a fat distribution I find to be extremely unappealing...and I believe even most FAs would agree.

They are very large women but, for example, have small and/or flat booties and/or massive hanging bellies that are down to the knees and/or lopsided.

I’ve seen other fat women who appear to be average-sized to maybe mild to moderately obese at best overall but then have long, oval-shaped bellies that touch the knees and I’m highly skeptical that is comfortable.

Honestly, seeing them makes me feel a bit grateful for having a proportionate fat body. I think I would feel much worse about myself if I were still fat but had a shape like one I mentioned above.
 
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I think all bodies are beautiful in their own ways. I find the bodies of women especially beautiful. I have always liked bigger guys as well, a thick muscular body with some extra padding. But I am not particular. I am much more interested in someone's heart and mind.
I think this is a nice sentiment but, in reality, it’s not true — not to me, anyway.
 

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FatBarbieDoll said:
I won’t mention names because I don’t want to be mean but I have seen other fat women who have a fat distribution I find to be extremely unappealing. They are very large women but, for example, have small and/or flat booties and/or massive hanging bellies that are down to the knees and/or lopsided.
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I can agree with this one. Or they have no shape and the fat kinda hangs off them. As I mentioned in another thread, this latter seems to happen most when someone puts on weight later in life for some reason. Or when the person has a small skeletal structure, and they are thus unable to distribute fat properly.
 

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I'm going to be as tactful as possible here. Saying you don't want to be mean "but" ends up sounding mean. This is a safe space for a heck of a lot of people, some with bodies that others "find to be extremely unappealing" and those remarks come off as extremely insensitive. Please be kind and thoughtful in your responses.
 

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I'm going to be as tactful as possible here. Saying you don't want to be mean "but" ends up sounding mean. This is a safe space for a heck of a lot of people, some with bodies that others "find to be extremely unappealing" and those remarks come off as extremely insensitive. Please be kind and thoughtful in your responses.
One of the great things about there being seven billion people on the planet is that, as clichéd as it sounds, there's someone for everyone. No matter the body/personality type, someone will like it. I do not think there's anything wrong with anyone saying they do not find such and such type attractive. No names are named, no fingers pointed. I could just as easily say, well I don't find short hair attractive. Same thing.
 

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I like the cliché, there's someone for everyone. There's a way to convey how you feel about something without shaming people for the bodies they now have, were born into, decide to have or even wish for. Everyone has an opinion, including me. Sometimes it's just a lot nicer to think them though.
One of the great things about there being seven billion people on the planet is that, as clichéd as it sounds, there's someone for everyone. No matter the body/personality type, someone will like it. I do not think there's anything wrong with anyone saying they do not find such and such type attractive. No names are named, no fingers pointed. I could just as easily say, well I don't find short hair attractive. Same thing.
 

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I’ve been attracted to people of all shapes and sizes, as for me it’s more about the person than the packaging. My ideal preference for men is toned and athletic, which the guy im involved with has 🥰🥰 I am a big fan of boobs, so women with ample bosom get my attention. I guess I prefer them to have some padding, but I don’t really have a set type.
 

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I'm going to be as tactful as possible here. Saying you don't want to be mean "but" ends up sounding mean. This is a safe space for a heck of a lot of people, some with bodies that others "find to be extremely unappealing" and those remarks come off as extremely insensitive. Please be kind and thoughtful in your responses.
I totally agree with this.

As a rule of thumb, when talking about "body shape preferences", it's best just to say what you like and leave it at that. Saying what you don't like can sound very rejecting towards the people so described. It sounds like total rejection and that is very hurtful.

My preference is for men with big bellies. It's also the shape that I want for myself.
 
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