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It has come to my attention in VERY recent conversations with my husband that he wants me to lose weight. Now, I know he meant no harm by it, but I also know that I just rid myself of wanting to compulsively diet and excersize to conform to what society and everyone else wants me to look like.
I think what triggered it was the fact that I mentioned doing some semi-nude modeling and he flipped out! He told me that he had looked at some of those sites and that the women on there were repulsively huge (Ladies, dont worry, you are gorgeous and I think you look GREAT). But the thing is... they were MY SIZE. SO was he saying Im repulsive as well?
And now he wants to eat healty, excersze, and lose the pounds! I have no issue with that until he brought me into it. Suggesting that it would be good for me too. I feel like Im getting mixed signals here and, damn, its confusing..
"I love you the way you are! Dont change." to (while looking at pictures of ladies that are shaped exactly like myself) "Thats repulsive."
So, I guess I just need some advise on what to do!
And Im sorry if I offended anyone in anyway. It was definetly unintentional!
I think what triggered it was the fact that I mentioned doing some semi-nude modeling and he flipped out! He told me that he had looked at some of those sites and that the women on there were repulsively huge (Ladies, dont worry, you are gorgeous and I think you look GREAT). But the thing is... they were MY SIZE. SO was he saying Im repulsive as well?
And now he wants to eat healty, excersze, and lose the pounds! I have no issue with that until he brought me into it. Suggesting that it would be good for me too. I feel like Im getting mixed signals here and, damn, its confusing..
"I love you the way you are! Dont change." to (while looking at pictures of ladies that are shaped exactly like myself) "Thats repulsive."
So, I guess I just need some advise on what to do!
And Im sorry if I offended anyone in anyway. It was definetly unintentional!
