FatGirlLover
Well-Known Member
The other day, I was showing one of my mates pictures of Heather and Cindy as examples of really fat women that I find to be the most attractive, but when I showed him a pic of Cindy he came out with a comment that really annoyed me along the lines of "Oh my god being that size shes gonna die soon". First and foremost, that is an insensitive and horrible thing to say about somebody, and secondly its simply not true. This sums up the attitude in the vast majority of modern society, that says just because you are very fat ("morbidly obese", why do they have to use such a horrible word? 'morbid' as if life is hopeless just because you differ from what society considers 'normal' - why not "greatly obese" or something more positive? No, that wouldnt sound so dramatic, would it?
), means you are very unhealthy and are not likely to live for very long.
So this leads me on to my main question - do you think that if you are an ssbbw you will definitely have health problems, or do you think (as I do) that you can be really heavy and still be fit? I would like to hear from all the ssbbws out there, especially Cindy because you certainly look healthy even though you are over 550 lbs, and I want to show my idiot mate just how stupid his comment was. Im just curious to find out people's experiences, are you in fine health or has being an SSBBW caused you lots of problems which you wouldn't have had if you were thinner? Obviously, as an average sized guy I have no experience personally, and I just want to show that this stereotypical view of fat = unhealthy simply isnt true for the majority of fat people.
), means you are very unhealthy and are not likely to live for very long.So this leads me on to my main question - do you think that if you are an ssbbw you will definitely have health problems, or do you think (as I do) that you can be really heavy and still be fit? I would like to hear from all the ssbbws out there, especially Cindy because you certainly look healthy even though you are over 550 lbs
, and I want to show my idiot mate just how stupid his comment was. Im just curious to find out people's experiences, are you in fine health or has being an SSBBW caused you lots of problems which you wouldn't have had if you were thinner? Obviously, as an average sized guy I have no experience personally, and I just want to show that this stereotypical view of fat = unhealthy simply isnt true for the majority of fat people.
