I've only really ever been complimented on weight loss (weight loss being entirely unintentional), but it would be nice to hear a compliment directed more towards my curves, as I do take pride it them!
I don't so much mind the term fat lol as I mind the reaction of those around me...for example, if a guy turns to me and says "damn baby you fat!" :eat2:I can take it and respond with anything I want to...whether I say "yup, all the more for that lucky S.O.B. to take and ride with" :wubur "oh really, cause I thought when I got undressed I was a size 2?!?" :doh: depending on how it was uttered...BUT it is the look on the faces of those around me like "oh no he didn't" like being called fat is the same as finding out your man just banged your mom; unacceptable. I don't mind being called fat, :happy: cause I am fat lol but I am also pretty, funny, smart as hell, clever, sexy ect and I just hope those words and not just fat are used to describe me....though during frisky times I do love it when he tells me my fat is sexy to him since that was the one part of me I was told was always gross and to know it is turn on for him makes me comfortable enough to really get into it and enjoy!!:blush: